Women : Do you literally ask a guy out? (date, how to, feelings)

[mir86]

Originally Posted by Texas User

Afraid of rejection.

possibly! but he's not afraid to ask if I'll make out with him! lol, my answer is always no!

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by mir86

possibly! but he's not afraid to ask if I'll make out with him! lol, my answer is always no!

Is he your friend?

[mir86]

Originally Posted by Texas User

Is he your friend?

yes, and yes I know that's why he's not afraid to joke like that. I was kidding around!

[Texas User]

Any woman asked and got rejected?

[miyu]

I've never done it before. I think it is creepy to ask out strangers or to have a stranger ask you out. It's better to be friends first so at least you get to know what they are like.

[D217]

I've actually dated several guys who approached me outta the blue.

I kind of admire that, it's a bold move, and can be very exciting (if he's fine )

[myrevenge]

I'm 27, is that young enough?

I have made flirty/friendly moves which led to a guy asking me out directly but really I was the one to instigate the initial meeting. That's as far as I'll go and he better meet me halfway or forget it. I'm not interested in timid, shy men. A guy with no guts can't handle a relationship with me anyway.

Also, it isn't true that every attractive woman gets hit on all the time. A lot of men are scared of rejection or assume you're taken.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by D217

I've actually dated several guys who approached me outta the blue.

I kind of admire that, it's a bold move, and can be very exciting (if he's fine )

You would rather go out with a stranger then someone who is interested in you but does not ask you out?

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by myrevenge

I'm 27, is that young enough?

I have made flirty/friendly moves which led to a guy asking me out directly but really I was the one to instigate the initial meeting. That's as far as I'll go and he better meet me halfway or forget it. I'm not interested in timid, shy men. A guy with no guts can't handle a relationship with me anyway.

Also, it isn't true that every attractive woman gets hit on all the time. A lot of men are scared of rejection or assume you're taken.

Also, I have heard that very attractive women do not get asked out a lot because guys will think she is taken.

[mir86]

Originally Posted by Texas User

Also, I have heard that very attractive women do not get asked out a lot because guys will think she is taken.

lol, how on earth is a woman supposed to know that that is her problem after all?? I would just think men don't like me.