Men, how do you take rejection? (like, women, love, looking)
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Why can't people just accept defeat and humbly move on? What happened to having some self-respect?
Somehow I have the feeling that you would describe your own rejections in a different way that didnt include the word defeat. Or that you felt you should be accepting and humbled after that "defeat". As to your question I have no problem with it. The spark wasnt there, end of story. You cant make that spark or wish it or will it to be, it either happens or it doesnt. Its got nothing to do with my worthiness or lack thereof and I see no reason to take it personal.
Somehow I have the feeling that you would describe your own rejections in a different way that didnt include the word defeat. Or that you felt you should be accepting and humbled after that "defeat". As to your question I have no problem with it. The spark wasnt there, end of story. You cant make that spark or wish it or will it to be, it either happens or it doesnt. Its got nothing to do with my worthiness or lack thereof and I see no reason to take it personal.
What I mean about humbleness is that some people have to go on a tirade about how "great" they are and how much of a catch they are and how I'm missing out. A person with confidence and self-respect doesn't need to make a showcase about how awesome and wonderful they are. They should accept it as is, realize it's nothing personal, and move on.
But now I'm in trouble. I'm going in to the frog house for a while.
What did you get in trouble for? I see they're all teaming up on you lol.
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