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Old 04-30-2011, 07:52 PM
 
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No didnt read him a story..so do you think it is safe to say that just because you are in bed with a man that is an automatic yes???

IS this a serious Question, or a serious thread?


(Honest question)
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Old 04-30-2011, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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No didnt read him a story..so do you think it is safe to say that just because you are in bed with a man that is an automatic yes???
umm sorta. I mean I'm really really trying to come up with another reason but maybe I'm missing something.
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Old 04-30-2011, 07:54 PM
 
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Why are you in his bed if you don't like him?
Ok, op, you are the sexiest, hottest woman alive. Happy now?
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Old 04-30-2011, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Everywhere you want to be
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If you're that jizzworthy, shouldn't you be pleased
He attempted...but I am a tough cookie,plus I didnt feel an emotional safe connection to him. I have cuddled,spooned or what have you in other mens beds but it wasn't expected that we were going to sleep together. After this experience I quickly realized NOT all men are okay with a little fondling and thats it...

Never saw a man so pissed off in my life....
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Old 04-30-2011, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Everywhere you want to be
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IS this a serious Question, or a serious thread?


(Honest question)
Seriously serious
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Old 04-30-2011, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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He attempted...but I am a tough cookie,plus I didnt feel an emotional safe connection to him. I have cuddled,spooned or what have you in other mens beds but it wasn't expected that we were going to sleep together. After this experience I quickly realized NOT all men are okay with a little fondling and thats it...

Never saw a man so pissed off in my life....
"cough" tease...................
you must be like 15. lol
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Old 04-30-2011, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Back in COLORADO!!!
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Lady, if you don't plan on sleeping with him, then stay out of his bed....

Absolutely, no means no, but why put yourself in this situation?

This guy does sound a bit weird. In his 40's and dry humping the bed? All the more reason for you to stay out of it......
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Everywhere you want to be
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"cough" tease...................
you must be like 15. lol
Funny...really funny...no I am NOT 15
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:00 PM
 
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I actually witnessed it after him waiting 5 hrs for me..he said I was a very influential person in his life...but I guess he was very disappointed to see that I am NOT easily influenced
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No didnt read him a story..so do you think it is safe to say that just because you are in bed with a man that is an automatic yes???
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He attempted...but I am a tough cookie,plus I didnt feel an emotional safe connection to him. I have cuddled,spooned or what have you in other mens beds but it wasn't expected that we were going to sleep together. After this experience I quickly realized NOT all men are okay with a little fondling and thats it...

Never saw a man so pissed off in my life....
So what were you doing with him for 5 hours? If you weren't feeling emotionally safe with him, you shouldn't have been in bed teasing him for 5 hours. Maybe I'm misunderstanding?

His actions were still bizarre and downright nasty, IMO.

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Old 04-30-2011, 08:02 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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He attempted...but I am a tough cookie,plus I didnt feel an emotional safe connection to him. I have cuddled,spooned or what have you in other mens beds but it wasn't expected that we were going to sleep together. After this experience I quickly realized NOT all men are okay with a little fondling and thats it...

Never saw a man so pissed off in my life....
I don't know. I don't think the male penis is that easy, barring the hooker penises that screw five different women per week.

But depending on the female, the average shaft gets worked up pretty fast. So you need to take it as a compliment and not write him off, becoz you also teased him for hours??

But I am not sure of the "pissed off" part. Sounds like Kevin Spacey in American Beauty. It happens to starved men, maybe.
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