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Old 04-30-2011, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Everywhere you want to be
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I know a man..He is in his 40's..I am in my very early 30's. He is divorced for about 4 years. He is very attracted to me. I find him appealing but we do not have much chemistry due to some of our views. He is financially secure and easy on the eyes, well manered, but we lack chemistry/connection...

Anyhow this man gets turned on very easily...it is uncanny how easily this man gets turned on...he was so turned on once he started humping the bed and actually ejaculated. I asked what the hell where you doing and he states he needed to release before going to bed....

So men..Is it normal to hump the bed when a gorgeous woman is in your bed and tells you No and you are turned on just because she stroked your arm??? I dont think it is normal and in all my years I have NEVER heard nor seen this...please assist me in this one...
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Im a guy and no . . . cant say as this is somthing I would do
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:38 PM
 
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Oh Not only that he feels manipulated even he doesn't get sex and proceeds to please himself...I find him very odd and makes me nervous...I have chosen to no longer hang out with him. His rationale is once stimulation occurs than it is no longer up to one person to decide when to advance or not....that sounds like a rapist mentality. Not only that I have never seen where i stroke your arm and the back of your head and you are ready to go...perhaps i give out some very intense electrifying energy,but it wasn't intentional. IF it WERE--DUDE would have DEFINITELY known it..what a waste...
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Well mannered and dry humping the bed......lol
I'm sorry, your in bed with him and say no? Are you reading him a story?
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:41 PM
 
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I know a man..He is in his 40's..I am in my very early 30's. He is divorced for about 4 years. He is very attracted to me. I find him appealing but we do not have much chemistry due to some of our views. He is financially secure and easy on the eyes, well manered, but we lack chemistry/connection...

Anyhow this man gets turned on very easily...it is uncanny how easily this man gets turned on...he was so turned on once he started humping the bed and actually ejaculated. I asked what the hell where you doing and he states he needed to release before going to bed....

So men..Is it normal to hump the bed when a gorgeous woman is in your bed and tells you No and you are turned on just because she stroked your arm??? I dont think it is normal and in all my years I have NEVER heard nor seen this...please assist me in this one...
Did he tell you this or did you see this first-hand?

I can't imagine a mature man getting off this way, let alone admitting to it.

Either way to me that's got Ewwww written all over it.
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:46 PM
 
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Did he tell you this or did you see this first-hand?

I can't imagine a mature man getting off this way, let alone admitting to it.

Either way to me that's got Ewwww written all over it.
I actually witnessed it after him waiting 5 hrs for me..he said I was a very influential person in his life...but I guess he was very disappointed to see that I am NOT easily influenced
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:46 PM
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uhhh

does this really need to be asked?

answer to original question: no :P
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:47 PM
 
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Well mannered and dry humping the bed......lol
I'm sorry, your in bed with him and say no? Are you reading him a story?
No didnt read him a story..so do you think it is safe to say that just because you are in bed with a man that is an automatic yes???
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:51 PM
 
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I know a man..He is in his 40's..I am in my very early 30's. He is divorced for about 4 years. He is very attracted to me. I find him appealing but we do not have much chemistry due to some of our views. He is financially secure and easy on the eyes, well manered, but we lack chemistry/connection...

Anyhow this man gets turned on very easily...it is uncanny how easily this man gets turned on...he was so turned on once he started humping the bed and actually ejaculated. I asked what the hell where you doing and he states he needed to release before going to bed....

So men..Is it normal to hump the bed when a gorgeous woman is in your bed and tells you No and you are turned on just because she stroked your arm??? I dont think it is normal and in all my years I have NEVER heard nor seen this...please assist me in this one...
If you're that jizzworthy, shouldn't you be pleased
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Old 04-30-2011, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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No didnt read him a story..so do you think it is safe to say that just because you are in bed with a man that is an automatic yes???

Well, no is always no, but it's a pretty strong indicator that if you've gotten into a man's bed, you MIGHT just be saying nonverbally, from his perspective, that you are interested in doing more than stroking his arm.
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