why do women go from hornballs to duds? (married, single, kid)

[RedZin]

Originally Posted by robee70

Just like that when they have 2 kids together? I'm sure he doesn't have that new car smell either.

[LaoTzuMindFu]

Originally Posted by robee70

Just like that when they have 2 kids together? I'm sure he doesn't have that new car smell either.

Of course. He's not walking away from his kids, he's walking away from a relationship that has gone downhill because of her.

So um, yeah....... just like that.

[chielgirl]

Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu

Of course. He's not walking away from his kids, he's walking away from a relationship that has gone downhill because of her.

So um, yeah....... just like that.

And you know that this is "her" fault?
Prescient?

Where do you have enough information to make that comment? Certainly not from the OP.
Sounds like you've had/created bad relationships and are coming from a sour grapes standpoint.

[*Sixy*]

Hmmm, maybe all he does is take his close off, pump one out and go back to scratching himself and belching.

Can't blame it all on her if you don't know the whole story.

All we got out of his side of it was 3 sentences.

[robee70]

Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu

Of course. He's not walking away from his kids, he's walking away from a relationship that has gone downhill because of her.

So um, yeah....... just like that.

We don't know anything about this relationship. I don't think there is enough information to tell someone to move on.

[GloryB]

This is probably where this old saying came from....

Men use Love to get Sex
Women use Sex to get Love

Neither are wrong or vicious, just a different frame of mind.

[JerZ]

Because you stop romancing us, dude.

At first it's all about the color of our eyes, haiku about how precious we are to you and deep, sighing admissions.

A couple/few years later we have to ask you to move your feet so we can pick up the pizza box YOU left on the coffee table and while we're doing that...you're craning your neck because we're interrupting your Lakers game by cleaning up after you, meanwhile saying offhandedly, "Hey, so...are you into it tonight?" because now, you've noticed that we're there.

So...you figure it out. Why do we go from horndogs to uninterested?

[LABART]

Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu

Time to trade in the old model for a new model. Thats all it is. Once the odometer gets over 100,000 miles on it, it slows down and sometimes may not start at all. Time for an upgrade my friend, time for an upgrade.

That's so cold. The same can be said about the man as well.

But, really the OP has not given much information and it sounds like he thinks she's cheating.

[Jefetio]

Originally Posted by KaDeN 669

I don't get it when I met my girlfriend. 7 years ago she was a sex maniac
now its like pulling teeth. I just don't get...

7 year itch

it's the biology bro

you gotta combat that. If you want to stick it out with her, you have to get in her head, find out what it takes to reignite that spark.

and here you probably thought women were more loyal and monogamous than men...

well, now you know the truth, whatya gonna do about it?

[Mt-7]

Tell her she is free.

Right yes?
That is what you are really asking for.