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Old 05-03-2011, 07:28 PM
 
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I would NOT marry someone who did not want sex !

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Old 05-03-2011, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Go out to the motorhome to enjoy each other, whisper sweet porn to your beloved, get reacquainted...
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Old 05-03-2011, 09:32 PM
 
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I really want to know how old this guy is because his question makes me think he's either not that bright or he's still relatively young.
I am 30 young its just that theres nothing... Im not asking to do it 24/7 but at night when we have time alone theres just no urgency anymore she dont give head anymore she went from a vacuum cleaner to just **** me hrry up im tired it's retarded....she's 29 i thought they were suposed to become hornballs now...
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Old 05-03-2011, 09:42 PM
 
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I am 30 young its just that theres nothing... Im not asking to do it 24/7 but at night when we have time alone theres just no urgency anymore she dont give head anymore she went from a vacuum cleaner to just **** me hrry up im tired it's retarded....she's 29 i thought they were suposed to become hornballs now...
Nah, you've got another 7yrs or so for that!
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Old 05-03-2011, 09:51 PM
 
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Nah, you've got another 7yrs or so for that!
she went from total nympho to virgin I dont get how you go from porn star to dud??? Everyone I talk to are still puting out plenty and they have kids... Im losing my mind
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Old 05-03-2011, 09:57 PM
 
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she went from total nympho to virgin I dont get how you go from porn star to dud??? Everyone I talk to are still puting out plenty and they have kids... Im losing my mind
Could you back up a little? How long ago did things begin to change? Was it a gradual change or sudden?

Have there been any major issues in your relationship?

No one here really knows the answer and no one here thinks you should be in a sexless relationship.
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Old 05-03-2011, 09:58 PM
 
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Uh, yeah. You have 2 kids and 7 years with her and you still haven't managed to get your butt down to City Hall? I wouldn't do ya, either.

Get some convictions and stop thinking with the little head.
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Old 05-03-2011, 10:05 PM
 
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Im not thinking with the little head. Sex is a huge part of the relationship... I don't get what marriage has to do with anything? sex is the only part missing...
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Old 05-03-2011, 10:11 PM
 
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How is her health and overall well-being?

My sex drive died...as in, I could care less if I ever had sex again. I brought it up to my OB and she said it was normal to feel like that after having kids

So I brought it up to my GP (among many other issues I was having) and she ran some bloodwork. I had hypothyroid and once I got on meds the drive went through the roof! I'm having a hard time keeping my hands to myself.

I also noticed a very low drive when I was on birth control too.

There could be a lot of things going on here with your SO...it may be something medical, or it might be something that YOU need to fix. Has it been the same ol', same ol' for the last 7 yrs? If there's nothing medical going on, maybe you need to introduce a little spice?
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Old 05-03-2011, 10:15 PM
 
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Im not thinking with the little head. Sex is a huge part of the relationship... I don't get what marriage has to do with anything? sex is the only part missing...
I think sex (or lack of it) is just the symptom. Sex may be the only part missing for YOU in this relationship, but I bet there's a whole lot going on which you conveniently are not interested in sharing with us.

If you're this open & forthcoming with your SO, no surprise that there's no sex.
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