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Old 05-08-2011, 03:26 AM
 
Location: state of procrastination
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be glad... be very glad... he sounds disgusting.
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Old 05-08-2011, 04:17 AM
 
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Did you ask him to stop gawking at all these girls/women, or did you just call him fat and told him that if he was too fat he wasn't good boyfriend material? I'm not trying to be wicked, I just think he probably thinks you guys broke up cause he was fat, instead of telling him straight up that he is a disgusting pig because he gawks at 15 year olds.

Why did you guys break up? Was it because he decided he didn't want to compromise and stop looking at these girls in front of you? Did he say he had a right to gawk?
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Old 05-08-2011, 07:44 AM
 
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Be happy that his is gone. Sounds like he was trouble.
You deserve so much more.
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Old 05-08-2011, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Maryland not Murlin
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guess i just want to think about something bad about him to help me get over...
Uh, sorry, but you are still holding on. You may think that by thinking bad thoughts about him or trying to paint him in a negative light is going to make you feel better for the breakup, but in reality all you are doing is keeping his memory alive.
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Old 05-08-2011, 11:00 AM
 
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they are all back in home country, im basically here in this country alone...which makes the situation suckier.
aw shucks, that is hard. You probably had a semi-father figure in him, as well, - and an only friend. So you are grieving a loss of a lot.

But just think, - he was probably attracted to an exotic, young thing in you, just another exploit of his. He sounds very immature for a 38 yo.
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Old 05-08-2011, 12:12 PM
 
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Did you ask him to stop gawking at all these girls/women, or did you just call him fat and told him that if he was too fat he wasn't good boyfriend material? I'm not trying to be wicked, I just think he probably thinks you guys broke up cause he was fat, instead of telling him straight up that he is a disgusting pig because he gawks at 15 year olds.

Why did you guys break up? Was it because he decided he didn't want to compromise and stop looking at these girls in front of you? Did he say he had a right to gawk?
we fight a lot because he can't help being insenstive and checking out/mentioning other women( in a admiring way) in front of me. i tolf him it's not a nice thing to do but he says that's what guys do.

i get angry when fight and would yell at him, he hates that.

basically we broke up because i can't stand his looking at other woman and he thinks i'm crazy( yelling)
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Old 05-08-2011, 12:18 PM
 
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aw shucks, that is hard. You probably had a semi-father figure in him, as well, - and an only friend. So you are grieving a loss of a lot.

But just think, - he was probably attracted to an exotic, young thing in you, just another exploit of his. He sounds very immature for a 38 yo.
yes he used to be all i have....i feel bad also because i don't want to think of him as a bad person. i often find excuse for him that he's just being a guy. but as the same time i feel disrespected and he's not changing...
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