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Old 08-13-2016, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Do what

Lady KLO
davenz
nuala

suggested, and enjoy and have fun!
You are not going to marry, so YOU ARE AS OLD AS HE SEES YOU !!
And I am not at all interested how old you are, you are as old as you look and appear.

P.S Now I read it's only 10 years, only, you could even get married!!

Last post was 2 years ago......
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Old 08-13-2016, 10:12 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Last post was 2 years ago......
Omg, yes, I did not even notice how old this post is. I just looked at the headline....sorry.
They are probably married by now!
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Old 08-13-2016, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Toronto
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Ladies if men can shameless do this ....why the heck can't we. As long as they are of legal age, if they are chasing after you and you like them why?
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Old 08-14-2016, 01:00 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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I've learned from this forum that too many people get caught up on age.

It's not just around here though, it's pretty much the whole world. But I never realized how big of a deal it was before I started reading this forum.

As long as the person on the younger end is legal age and the person on the older end isn't like 88 (provided the younger ended person in the relationship is like 40 or 50 years younger or something) is it really a big deal?
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Old 08-14-2016, 03:51 AM
 
Location: Florida
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(provided the younger ended person in the relationship is like 40 or 50 years younger or something) is it really a big deal?
I assume you meant to say
(provided the younger ended person in the relationship isn't like 40 or 50 years younger or something)
And I have to ask you why do you put any cut off on it if the people involved have no problem with it?
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Old 08-14-2016, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Cowlitz County, WA
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I've dated a 37yrs old woman when I was 23 at the time. However, it felt more like a fling than anything else. Too bad because I wouldn't mind having a LTR with the person. Anyways, I'm more attracted to older women than women around my age.
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Old 08-14-2016, 08:33 PM
 
Location: USA
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I assume you meant to say
(provided the younger ended person in the relationship isn't like 40 or 50 years younger or something)
And I have to ask you why do you put any cut off on it if the people involved have no problem with it?
Yep^ If you click, regardless of age, run with it!
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Old 08-15-2016, 12:15 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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I assume you meant to say
(provided the younger ended person in the relationship isn't like 40 or 50 years younger or something)
And I have to ask you why do you put any cut off on it if the people involved have no problem with it?
Yes, that's what I meant to type. Was a typo on my part.

And if the people involved have no problem with it, I could care less at all. I'm just saying that if there's a HUGE age difference, I can understand people having a hang up or being worried about it.

But these instances of people that are 10-15 years apart, this is not anywhere near a big deal at all.

I found when I was single, I could flirt with 19 year olds and 49 year olds all the same.
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Old 09-10-2016, 07:24 AM
 
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Give yourself more credit. Confidence is attractive!
Don't worry so much about being rejected.
I'm 46, have a mild case of cerebral palsy and scoliosis which causes me to walk with a limp, but I've never had an issue finding a date or being in a relationship.
My current s.o. is 20 years younger than I am (and hot)! Lol.
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Old 09-10-2016, 08:13 AM
 
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Give yourself more credit. Confidence is attractive!
Don't worry so much about being rejected.
I'm 46, have a mild case of cerebral palsy and scoliosis which causes me to walk with a limp, but I've never had an issue finding a date or being in a relationship.
My current s.o. is 20 years younger than I am (and hot)! Lol.
Being female doesn't count. It's cheating.

Show me a 46 year old male with cerebral palsy that's dating a woman 20 years younger than him. You won't find it because we actually have to put in effort for things that we want and we need to deal with adversity (something most women know nothing about).
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