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Old 05-10-2011, 06:04 AM
 
Location: Vegas, baby, Vegas!
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There is a user named 'WeirdGuy' on here, you two should hook up, I hear he has a great porn collection.



Jonathan
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Old 05-10-2011, 12:53 PM
 
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There is a user named 'WeirdGuy' on here, you two should hook up, I hear he has a great porn collection.



Jonathan
Ha. Really funny. But, I really hope you (and other posters here) are poking fun at me. This is a serious question and depression has been in my family for YEARS. And I'm not sure if a black girl from a large family is considered a, 'southern belle'.
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Old 05-10-2011, 12:57 PM
 
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I tried to be the, "happy, silly girlfriend, who's actually extremely intelligent" but that bombed completely.
Then try being yourself and see where that gets you!
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Old 05-10-2011, 12:59 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Be sure to get out and circulate, see movies/shows you like, hobbies you enjoy and always remember your happiness and health are top priority. Stand strong and know you deserve a good life. And if you put in solid effort to this change will come. Im not saying the world will fall at your feet, but it will brighten up and eliminate the unhappiness. Go for it!
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Old 05-10-2011, 01:55 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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I'm not poking fun at you but seriously, you need to grow up and join the real world. We are all weird. We all all the odd man out at times.

So think about doing this. And then do it. Go volunteer at a homeless shelter or a soup kitchen. Make a promise to yourself that you will do this for the summer break. Maybe a food shelf or the humane society as well.

Why? Doing this will help you learn that you are a valuable person and you are in the middle of getting a great gift, an education. You will stop taking the good things in your life for granted. You will see a bunch of people who really do have insurmountable problems. You will get a whole new perspective on life.

Boyfriends come and go. You can have another one whenever YOU want. And never settle for less. People who are dating are on their best behavior and your wonder boy was already at least verbally abusive. And allowed his friends to treat you badly. Imagine what he's like when he's not on his best behavior. Do you really want a lifetime of THAT? Why would you even be interested in someone who has to put you down to make himself feel good?

Stand up tall, grow a spine, and look hard for some self respect. By helping others, you will learn how to help yourself.
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Old 05-10-2011, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Go out and get laid a few times. That usually helps.
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Old 05-10-2011, 02:15 PM
 
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Rogers and Hammerstein had all the answers.....



Why should a woman who is healthy and strong,
Blubber like a baby if her man goes away?
A-weepin' and a-wailin' how he done her wrong,
That's one thing you'll never hear me say!
Never gonna' think that the man I lose is the only man among men.
I'll snap my fingers to show I don't care;
I'll buy me a brand new dress to wear;
I'll scrub my neck and I'll brush my hair,
And start all over again.
Many a new face will please my eye,
Many a new love will find me;
Never've I once looked back to sigh over the romance behind me;
Many a new day will dawn before I do!
Many a light lad may kiss and fly,
A kiss gone by is bygone.
Never've I asked an August sky, "Where has last July gone?"
Never've I wandered through the rye, wondering where has some guy gone;
Many a new day will dawn before I do!
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Old 05-10-2011, 02:30 PM
 
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Ha. Really funny. But, I really hope you (and other posters here) are poking fun at me. This is a serious question and depression has been in my family for YEARS. And I'm not sure if a black girl from a large family is considered a, 'southern belle'.
I would seriously consider talking with your doctor. Tell him you are not feeling as happy as you once did and think you would like to try some kind of medication.

If it is something that runs in your family then you should do this.

Sorry for the problems you have had. This will make you feel so much better. Trust me..I am medicated.
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Old 05-15-2011, 12:34 AM
 
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So, I've been talking to a counselor these past few days. And I'm trying to comfort my friend in this time of need - the funeral is tomorrow - I'm thinking of going with her.
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Old 05-15-2011, 12:47 AM
 
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So, I've been talking to a counselor these past few days. And I'm trying to comfort my friend in this time of need - the funeral is tomorrow - I'm thinking of going with her.
Good, I hope you do go with your friend to her grandfather's funeral. It's great to learn how to help others in their time of need. When you learn how to give, it helps you sort out your needs and makes you feel better.

Also great to hear you're talking to a counselor. Good luck!
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