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I date as much as I have interest/Money to do so, if not more.
Finally someone who gets it. Every dude gets rejected! I get rejected and I'm good looking! I get the "oh, I have a boyfriend" line most of the time. Sometimes depending on the chick and if I feel like a creeper I say, "How much do you REALLY like your boyfriend?"
If you get rejected every single time you ask, you need to change your game. Shave your beard, lose some weight, stop dressing the way you dress, find chicks at hobbies you like, etc.
Most chicks don't like obese dudes with a biker beard dressed like he just finished a bender of D & D. In short, dress to impress and take care of your looks. Dudes get a real bad rap of being shallow but chicks are just as if not more shallow than dudes.
I love women, and women love me. Sometimes a little too much. I try to accommodate as many as possible, but I can't please them all. Take tonight, for example. I talked to a ****load of women, but only had enough time to make out with one of the bartendresses.
Finally someone who gets it. Every dude gets rejected! I get rejected and I'm good looking! I get the "oh, I have a boyfriend" line most of the time. Sometimes depending on the chick and if I feel like a creeper I say, "How much do you REALLY like your boyfriend?"
Well, it's fine to try the numbers game, but when asking out twice as many women gets you twice the rejections there is little point in doing so. Unfortunately that is what many of us have found in real life (not just speculations here).
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Originally Posted by Dub D
If you get rejected every single time you ask, you need to change your game. Shave your beard, lose some weight, stop dressing the way you dress, find chicks at hobbies you like, etc.
Most chicks don't like obese dudes with a biker beard dressed like he just finished a bender of D & D. In short, dress to impress and take care of your looks. Dudes get a real bad rap of being shallow but chicks are just as if not more shallow than dudes.
You are quite right in a few things here. Yes, looks do matter to women (sorry people, but only some confidence just does not cut it). And it's good advice trying to improve yourself. Some of us keep being stuck despite all of it though.
Finally someone who gets it. Every dude gets rejected! I get rejected and I'm good looking! I get the "oh, I have a boyfriend" line most of the time. Sometimes depending on the chick and if I feel like a creeper I say, "How much do you REALLY like your boyfriend?"
If you get rejected every single time you ask, you need to change your game. Shave your beard, lose some weight, stop dressing the way you dress, find chicks at hobbies you like, etc.
Most chicks don't like obese dudes with a biker beard dressed like he just finished a bender of D & D. In short, dress to impress and take care of your looks. Dudes get a real bad rap of being shallow but chicks are just as if not more shallow than dudes.
Some guys don't even aim for Maxim hot 100 type women, they aim for average or even ugly women and they still get turned down everytime.
Well, it's fine to try the numbers game, but when asking out twice as many women gets you twice the rejections there is little point in doing so. Unfortunately that is what many of us have found in real life (not just speculations here).
You are quite right in a few things here. Yes, looks do matter to women (sorry people, but only some confidence just does not cut it). And it's good advice trying to improve yourself. Some of us keep being stuck despite all of it though.
Do you know what type of return 'cold calls' and 'Flyer distribution' gets?
Something like 2%!!!!
THAT's the type of odds I EXPECT.
But you know what?
less than 24 hours after my GF dumped me to go back to her EX, I had a date (Arranged), and last night (2 evenings after) I went on the date, with a longlegged, good looking blond.
We already talked about the second date.
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Originally Posted by Tiger Blood
Some guys don't even aim for Maxim hot 100 type women, they aim for average or even ugly women and they still get turned down everytime.
Quite simply, your doing something wrong.
JUST LIKE every time I'm in bed my primary goal is to bring the woman to o*g*sm (I don't know if that word is allowed here... )
My CONSTANT goal is to make women laugh (So long as it's not a the same time!)
Pay for a decent haircut, dress neat (Doesn't have to be expensive, I've got Brooks Brothers for work, but I wore Jeans and a $5 shirt last night...)
And work on your PERSONALITY!
Then follow all the little riles about gently breaking the contact barrier, watch body language and adjust your own etc...
Do you know what type of return 'cold calls' and 'Flyer distribution' gets?
Something like 2%!!!!
THAT's the type of odds I EXPECT.
But you know what?
less than 24 hours after my GF dumped me to go back to her EX, I had a date (Arranged), and last night (2 evenings after) I went on the date, with a longlegged, good looking blond.
We already talked about the second date.
Quite simply, your doing something wrong.
JUST LIKE every time I'm in bed my primary goal is to bring the woman to o*g*sm (I don't know if that word is allowed here... )
My CONSTANT goal is to make women laugh (So long as it's not a the same time!)
Pay for a decent haircut, dress neat (Doesn't have to be expensive, I've got Brooks Brothers for work, but I wore Jeans and a $5 shirt last night...)
And work on your PERSONALITY!
Then follow all the little riles about gently breaking the contact barrier, watch body language and adjust your own etc...
Not hard.
I am currently bald, so yeah I can't get a haircut right now since there is nothing to cut for the time being.
some of us are busy LIVING life and don't really have the time to play the numbers game bull*****. Frankly I spend too much time on other things that to go around town asking every woman I am attracted to out and then be rejected...that is a pretty sad life. Just focus your efforts on other things that interest you besides women, if a woman likes you then SHE will give you a clear signal and you can proceed from that point in wooing her... no point going around asking random women out as that has virtually zero percent success. If a woman does not give you a CLEAR "I am now waiting to give you my # so please ask me" signal then you're wasting your time!
I don't really have a problem with the women who rejected me in the past, as my life has turned out absolutely amazing and they still have pretty sad lives so it's their loss not mine!
I have been rejected roughly 80-98 percent of the time.
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so it's their loss not mine!
