Men, Do You Get Rejected The Majority Of The Time ? (girls, single)

[lilamx]

Originally Posted by Johnny Vanderburgh

No.

I love women, and women love me. Sometimes a little too much. I try to accommodate as many as possible, but I can't please them all. Take tonight, for example. I talked to a ****load of women, but only had enough time to make out with one of the bartendresses.

Lol, isn't that generous of you?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by carra

Themanwithnoname, I get what you are saying and it's good advice. You might think I am just being negative and I am not willing to put the effort to approach women or to improve myself. Let me show you where I come from:

http://i1137.photobucket.com/albums/n519/mugencarra/Cambio-900.jpg (broken link)

Left pictures are 3 years ago, right 1 year ago. As you can see I improved myself in many ways: lost weight, gained confidence, made new friends, dressed better, learned to dance salsa, etc.

That's true! I like the pictures on the right way better! I'm not a big fan of facial hair, but it looks good on you (particularly the top and bottom pic in the right column)! Makes you look dark, charming, and mysterious!

[fleetiebelle]

For you guys who are getting rejected, are you just walking up to strange women and asking them out cold, or are these women that you've flirted around and developed a rapport with?

[HansProof]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

For you guys who are getting rejected, are you just walking up to strange women and asking them out cold...

Is that what they call second base? After I whip it out, there usually isn't enough time for me to get any introductory words in

[Johnny Vanderburgh]

Originally Posted by lilamx

Lol, isn't that generous of you?

I'm a very giving person.

[HansProof]

Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka

A month later she called me a clueless "raincoat", and that's when it dawned on me that I was expected to do something that night

Hahaha! Could be the opposite.

I was about all of 21 and making out with this woman at the dance club all night. We shut down the bar and she asked me to follow her back to her place. Said she never met a man like me before.

So we get to her place and she is basically IV'ing the wine into me. We weren't making out but we were kissing here and there between conversation. Then we (actually her) get on the conversation of how comfortable her new bed is.

Then she asks me to try it!

Then she asks me to get on it!

Then she gets on it with me!

Then I go for her shirt!

Then she says, "What are you doing? I just wanted to talk"







Ummm...do you want to talk about sex?

"I think you should leave now."



But I've learned it is life experiences and stories like this that make people magnetically interesting. Find the good. Usually the best kill stories, make the best humorous conversations years later.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by hansproof

then she says, "what are you doing? I just wanted to talk"

wtf?!

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Originally Posted by HansProof

Hahaha! Could be the opposite.

I was about all of 21 and making out with this woman at the dance club all night. We shut down the bar and she asked me to follow her back to her place. Said she never met a man like me before.

So we get to her place and she is basically IV'ing the wine into me. We weren't making out but we were kissing here and there between conversation. Then we (actually her) get on the conversation of how comfortable her new bed is.

Then she asks me to try it!

Then she asks me to get on it!

Then she gets on it with me!

Then I go for her shirt!

Then she says, "What are you doing? I just wanted to talk"







Ummm...do you want to talk about sex?

"I think you should leave now."



But I've learned it is life experiences and stories like this that make people magnetically interesting. Find the good. Usually the best kill stories, make the best humorous conversations years later.

Dude, wow, that was fricking awesome Geez.

[johna01374]

Dating is a numbers game. I read in several places that "attractive" guys get 1 in 10. Average guys 1 in 20.

I feel pretty good as my record when dating several years ago was around 1 in 15 an I consider myself average..

[DennyCrane]

Originally Posted by johna01374

Dating is a numbers game. I read in several places that "attractive" guys get 1 in 10. Average guys 1 in 20.

Treating it like a numbers game makes sense if you think you have equal chance with everyone you meet. But you don't. That's why it makes more sense to figure out who you have a reasonably good chance with and who you don't. Then you're not wasting your time on people where there's very little chance of success. I think some guys just hit on every woman they see thinking that, sooner or later, someone will say yes to them.