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I hardly think a week without sex qualifies for being unfaithful...really
I know it's natural for people to dream about others, my point is that I am hearing it every night we sleep in the same bed. We do not live together, it is when I stay over. It is the hearing about it that is upsetting me and the worry that he is going to call out someone's name.
If the noises he makes INVOLUNTARILY while he sleeps bother you, either don't sleep over his house or sleep in separate rooms.
If you're getting to the point where you feel entitled to the sounds a man makes in his sleep, then it's probably time to stop sleeping at his house.
This. If you're already irritated by involuntary behavior so early in the relationship, how are you going to handle big, voluntary things down the line? You've said in other threads that you're not sure about this guy, so stop moving so fast. Maybe your body is reacting like that because you need some space.
I hardly think a week without sex qualifies for being unfaithful...really
I know it's natural for people to dream about others, my point is that I am hearing it every night we sleep in the same bed. We do not live together, it is when I stay over. It is the hearing about it that is upsetting me and the worry that he is going to call out someone's name.
Seriously now, the solution is so simple I can't believe you don't see it...
QUIT HAVING SLEEPOVERS WITH THIS MAN until you have developed a more committed relationship.
Seriously now, the solution is so simple I can't believe you don't see it...
QUIT HAVING SLEEPOVERS WITH THIS MAN until you have developed a more committed relationship.
I don't understand, I don't see it. So I stop sleeping over because this is bothering me and then what..... won't it happen again if I stay over in future? Or is it not supposed to bother me then. I don't get it, would you mind elaborating pls.
I don't understand, I don't see it. So I stop sleeping over because this is bothering me and then what..... won't it happen again if I stay over in future? Or is it not supposed to bother me then. I don't get it, would you mind elaborating pls.
Instead of being so stressed out about him potentially calling out another women's name, how about you work on being the only name he wants to call out in his sleep.
I don't understand, I don't see it. So I stop sleeping over because this is bothering me and then what..... won't it happen again if I stay over in future? Or is it not supposed to bother me then. I don't get it, would you mind elaborating pls.
Sadly, you really don't get it
Okay, let me try to break it down for you...
the two of you have been dating for all of 5 minutes, obviously too soon to be "in love".
IF you were to take the time to let the relationship grow, fall in love, develop a deep friendship and trust for one another the odds of him calling out other womens names in his sleep would drop to nil. Not saying it could never happen, just that once his brain is focused on YOU because he loves YOU, the chances dramatically decrease.
You are having "sleepovers" too soon plain and simple. It's a stupid choice too many young woman often make.
OP, just be glad he's not doing untoward things to the mattress...
Seriously, listen to the other posters' advice. Sadly, there's not much more to say.
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