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Old 05-19-2011, 06:44 PM
 
Location: illinois
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Default ADULT TO ADULT SEXTING? IS IT acceptable for adults to send racy images to each other just to keep the flames going.

So i want to get some opinions about adult to adult sex ting. In particular picture sharing.

My personal opinion is that adult to adult sexting, no matter what the content is ok.... the only real danger is the embarrassing that might arise from being seen doing something graphic ( like an oral sex photo) floating around on the internet. But if you mitigate that danger by not showing faces or identifying marks, i think there isnt much of a problem. Its actually quite sexy and a really big turn on for some people, and sometimes its nice when you cant be with your SO to have an image to remind you of what your missing.... but the problem is that sometimes these pictures get out... either thru a lost phone or a misplaced letter on an email or something...

The question is .. when does it become ethically questionable ( especially for women) to take images of themselves. Because frankly, sometime, pictures of women fully clothed can be just as sex as pictures of women naked... sometimes even more sexy than a naked woman... ( no offense ladies, but i a fully naked woman isn't as attractive as woman in panties and a bra... i dont know what it is.. but .. its like..the vajayjay isnt exactly the pretiest thing to look at sometimes.. sorry ... boobs are great .. but not the downstairs..lolbut i still love it..lol.lol. ) ...

So should adults be confortable sexting, especially with todays technology, where the internet today , and people interperting almost any showing of skin sexually.... i mean.. showing the equivalent of a bikini in a picture shouldnt be wrong, but if it winds up on a porn site ... then .. im sure the woman involved would be quite embarrassed...

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Old 05-19-2011, 06:52 PM
 
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If both parties are ok with it and no one gets hurt its all good. You already know that an identifiable face combined with a lost phone could be bad....
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Old 05-19-2011, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Containment Area, NC
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If both parties are ok with it and no one gets hurt its all good. You already know that an identifiable face combined with a lost phone could be bad....
If you're a regular person, then I reckon it's harmless (minus photos, because that's just a bad idea).

For people with public careers, it's just stupid.
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:12 PM
 
Location: NYC
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It is acceptable for adults to do whatever they want so long as it is legal, hurts no one, and is their personal choice. Why on earth would you need to ask such a thing?
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:15 PM
 
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Yes it is acceptable if both parties are agreeable.

I do have to ask. Do you get a Phoner when sexting?
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Personally I think there are a lot of better, more creative ways to keep the flames fanned
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:39 PM
 
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Personally I think there are a lot of better, more creative ways to keep the flames fanned
Of course there are. But this stone shouldn't not be turned if they both are into this kind of thing.
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Old 05-19-2011, 07:53 PM
 
Location: illinois
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personally .. i think that if you arent confortalbe showing it on the beach, dont put it on film... thats just my opinion... ... but the thing is .. the perves of the world can make beach pictures dirty .... so ... we just have to live with the fact perverts are out there...
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Old 05-19-2011, 08:05 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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I like sexting...my ex used to send me quick little messages throughout the day. Those were the times that I wasn't trying to spend time chit chatting in the parking lot after work or going out for a drink or two cause I was trying to get home
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Old 05-19-2011, 08:22 PM
 
Location: illinois
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I like sexting...my ex used to send me quick little messages throughout the day. Those were the times that I wasn't trying to spend time chit chatting in the parking lot after work or going out for a drink or two cause I was trying to get home
i know.. its so nice ... like.. ive sometimes dropped things and just headed out to my car to meet my gf .. well ex now...!!! lol..lol.... just cause .. DAMMM!!!
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