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Old 05-22-2011, 05:07 PM
 
Location: Not Nowhere
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...but why would she lie about it at this point?
Maybe she was trying to lure you over.

"It's entirely possible to lez it up even if you've never fantasized about women before. If it happened to me, it can happen to you. Here, check it out..."
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Old 05-22-2011, 05:49 PM
 
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While I don't have any stats, nor did I care to look them up I do believe that people are born that way. It just has to be.

Most guys aren't gonna wake up one morning and say, "I've got a hankering for some sausage."

And I don't mean with the eggs and toast.


MOST of the lesbians I know have been sexually abused as a child or something similar.

One I knew was physically abused by her (Ex) husband... turned to women, and then met me (After going 'that way' for quite a few years)

She 'converted back'


"Born that way"... No chance.
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Old 05-22-2011, 05:53 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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MOST of the lesbians I know have been sexually abused as a child or something similar.

One I knew was physically abused by her (Ex) husband... turned to women, and then met me (After going 'that way' for quite a few years)

She 'converted back'


"Born that way"... No chance.
LOL... whatever

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Old 05-22-2011, 05:54 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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I've been joking about the same thing - that I'll switch teams when I get entirely too tired of men. However, I do realize we're not picnic, either, and the outcome may very well be the same, if not worse...
Especially, when we sync up.
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Old 05-22-2011, 05:55 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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especially, when we sync up.
lol
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Old 05-22-2011, 06:00 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Do you know of any women who got so fed up with men she switched to women?
No.
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Old 05-22-2011, 06:51 PM
 
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LOL... whatever


Yea, cause that would destroy your little theory wouldn't it?

It's not like I'm some big pimpmaster or anything... I was spending a year and a half having numerous surgeries done, had limited mobility, and just TALKED to her...

Showed her not all guys were A**holes or were just 'after' her...
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Old 05-22-2011, 06:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yea, cause that would destroy your little theory wouldn't it?

It's not like I'm some big pimpmaster or anything... I was spending a year and a half having numerous surgeries done, had limited mobility, and just TALKED to her...

Showed her not all guys were A**holes or were just 'after' her...
Since were talking about crushing theories and all.

What about the people that know in their heart of hearts at really really young ages that they were gay. I've heard story after story about it, without any kind of sexual or physical abuse.
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Old 05-22-2011, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Texas
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just every girl I've ever dated

can't quite figure out the common denominator in all of this though...
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Old 05-22-2011, 07:02 PM
 
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I bring this up because a woman I know did this a few years ago. Thinking a Woman would be less of a hassle after years of dealing with crappy men she found a woman, but the relationship turned out to be much worse than anything she had when she dated men.
This is funny... In all of my relationships, the women has always been the problem, they were aggressive about control and trying to change me... I can't imagine two of my ex's being in a relationship together... it will get downright physical... girls have a lot more drama then guys and when two of them get together... WORLD WAR 3...
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