Fan Fiction and how it's ruing my relationship (wife, lesbians, marriage)
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I can't do that to her. This whole time I never thought she needed help but I was the one who needed help. I'm really confused.
hmmm....so you were thinking we were going to tell you to get help and not her..this awesome chick of yours.
Nope, she's the one that needs help and you'll have a hell of a life with her if she doesn't overcome this addiction.
I think both of you need to sit down and talk about this addiction of hers. She clearly knows it's wrong if she's hiding it from her friends and allows them to think it's you, not her. Really, it's her and you're the fall guy.
Wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that. Totally dysfunctional right now.
could it be she writes it because she's good at it? her online friends encourage her so she gets a high off that? either way it's not fair for me. I'm supposed to get over it manage to have a relationship with a girl that stares at her phone 80% of the time. I need more attention then that or am I being clingy?
Cool it buddy that's my fiance your talking about. Lets be a little sensitive on the words being used. I do appreciated the feedback but please I'm very protective over her.
could it be she writes it because she's good at it? her online friends encourage her so she gets a high off that? either way it's not fair for me. I'm supposed to get over it manage to have a relationship with a girl that stares at her phone 80% of the time. I need more attention then that or am I being clingy?
Have you read her stories? Maybe she should write erotica about you instead of that wormy looking guy..Yeah I looked him up too! 22 and sex once a month is not a relationship. I think you should find your own obsession around someone who will return your affection. Sounds like your girl is turning into an empty shell wrt you.
We are engaged. I can't leave her. I love her to death and my loyalty is like no other. I just want her to cut back and stop starring at her phone every time we go out and do something and that includes sitting at home and doing nothing too!
Here we go again! Oh! she is hurting me emotionally, oh she is being selfish to my feelings, oh, I'm unhappy every day...
Just leave her...
What!!! Are you crazy, she loves me, can't you see! Look how good she is to me.
Okay I'm not trying to be harsh, but if this was one of your friends telling you about this you would tell him to leave because her actions don't say that she loves him. Just be warned... if she one day says we need to take a break.... DON'T SAY.... DON'T SAY... Where? Where did this come from, I though you loved me?
Honestly guy, when you love someone, you don't do things that hurt them emotionally and keep justifing it by saying well I need such and such too! Her obession isn't about life or death.
Just do this, pause the wedding and spend some time apart to let her see what's more important (of course I know you're not going to do this, but divorce is expensive)
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