Do most guys in their 20s want kids? (beautiful, immature, respect)
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I know! Most younger people think that kids are all fun and games, that is, until they actually have their own and realize how much of a responsibility they are.
And like city_data91, I realize that I wouldn't be able to take on the 24/7 responsibility. So go ahead, call me selfish, immature, etc. But hey, at least it's better than bringing an unwanted child into the world and resenting him/her.
Yeah, some might think it's immature that I don't want the responsibility of parenthood. But at least I realize parenthood takes responsibility. I think it's mature of me to realize that. And I think it's mature of me that I realize I would be unwilling to take on the responsibility so I've dedicated my life to never becoming a parent.
I'm not turning this into an abortion debate. That's why I didn't go into detail and I just left it at "I know why you don't want an abortion."
To me, it just appears you would be damned either way since you don't want an abortion but you don't want to give birth.
So I just wonder why you want to have sex someday during marriage and risk giving birth.
I never want kids either, but I'm also never having sex.
ohh I see.
But I kind of want to enjoy it within marriage. So I'm hoping that either I can get my tubes tied, have a partial hysterectomy, or my husband gets a vasectomy.
Both would be nice
But I kind of want to enjoy it within marriage. So I'm hoping that either I can get my tubes tied, have a partial hysterectomy, or my husband gets a vasectomy.
Both would be nice
I never use condoms and have been pulling out for the last 12 years and have never gotten a woman pregnant. I've had many women tell me to blow my load inside them, but I don't, until/unless they show me their birth control pills or show me their IUD or nueva ring (spell check?) in their vaginas. Do I recommend pulling out all the time and never using condoms? No. But I'm just going to be a voice of reason here and say that it's not an end all - be all type of situation where sex = pregnancy. It's simply not true.
I never use condoms and have been pulling out for the last 12 years and have never gotten a woman pregnant. I've had many women tell me to blow my load inside them, but I don't, until/unless they show me their birth control pills or show me their IUD or nueva ring (spell check?) in their vaginas. Do I recommend pulling out all the time and never using condoms? No. But I'm just going to be a voice of reason here and say that it's not an end all - be all type of situation where sex = pregnancy. It's simply not true.
I never use condoms and have been pulling out for the last 12 years and have never gotten a woman pregnant. I've had many women tell me to blow my load inside them, but I don't, until/unless they show me their birth control pills or show me their IUD or nueva ring (spell check?) in their vaginas. Do I recommend pulling out all the time and never using condoms? No. But I'm just going to be a voice of reason here and say that it's not an end all - be all type of situation where sex = pregnancy. It's simply not true.
Yeah, pulling out can prevent pregnancy. But there's no guarantee. Pulling out can also lead to pregnancy. And just because you haven't got someone pregnant yet doesn't mean you never will.
For all you know, the women you pulled out of might have been on birth control. Maybe you would have gotten them pregnant if it weren't for the birth control.
That being said, birth control is not foolproof either. Birth control can fail.
I don't think anyone implied sex always leads to pregnancy. But any time you have sex, you take that risk.
If you don't recommend pulling out, why do you do it?
And I find it hard to believe you've been having sex for 12 years. You said you've been out of high school for 11 years and you were unpopular in high school. Unpopular guys aren't exactly the type of guys that have sex in high school (it can happen, but it's rare). In high school, sex is something the popular people and the bad kids do.
I won't dispute that. In a poor neighborhood where a lot of people don't finish high school, of course a lot of people have kids young. But that's the way it is in any poor area where a lot of people don't finish high school.
I kind of agree, but you're also ignorant about the poor community. I'm from the poor neighborhood, and if a rich kid comes in telling me that "that's the way it is in the poor community", I'll look at you funny and maybe laugh at you. I won't take you serious.
Although I see many students who never finished high school, you never know why and can't always judge the fact that "they're poor and have kids, so therefore, they don't finish high school." Whether that may be the case or not, it's all about resource. If you have the resource, it's easier for you. If know how to get the resource, you'll fight to get it.
If you don't recommend pulling out, why do you do it?
Because I don't care.
[/quote]And I find it hard to believe you've been having sex for 12 years. You said you've been out of high school for 11 years and you were unpopular in high school. Unpopular guys aren't exactly the type of guys that have sex in high school (it can happen, but it's rare). In high school, sex is something the popular people and the bad kids do.[/quote]
You're right, my math is horrible. 10 years. Lost my viginity at 16 to a married Mexican woman who was 23 at my first job.
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