He has a small problem. A very small problem. (girlfriend, woman, different)

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by city_data91

That doesn't tell you much about an erect penis. Without going into too much detail, there can be a big difference between flaccid and erect

There is no stigma involved about going into detail about the size of a flaccid penis versus an erect penis. Your previous comment on this thread in which you said that the average flaccid penis is the size of a thumb was erroneous. If YOUR penis when flaccid is the size of the average thumb you might well consider this normal but I can assure you that over many decades of seeing many penises both flaccid and tumescent in both hot and cold weather conditions, a flaccid "thumbnail" sized penis is not the norm unless its bearer is either in frigid Arctic subzero conditions or faced with extreme danger as in having someone pointing a gun at him with intent to kill or being on an aircraft falling out of the sky, etc.

Originally Posted by himain

What exactly did you expect her to say to him????

I can only speak for myself and I'll give you an honest response based on my own past experiences and what the OP documented on this thread.

When he ejaculated into his underpants on the first attempt, I would have chuckled and gently laughed it off. On the second attempt when the same thing happened (and given all the great conversations we'd shared and how apparently compatible we were in so many different areas) I would have said something along the lines of, "I really enjoy you so much but (and I know this is probably a difficult thing to talk about) but premature ejaculation isn't a bad thing and can we talk about it?"

The third rime, well, it hadn't been talked about and thus the elephant was in the room, and it wasn't talked about then either.

Been there done that. Sometimes, just sometimes, we oldsters have something to contribute. Hope that clarifies!

[MissLucky]

Originally Posted by OngletNYC

This new guy is 6'4" --- even if he's smaller than I'd guess, proportionally he'll still be packing more than the last guy.

Sorry but tall guys tend to be even "smaller" than short ones, at least according to my experience. I hope this statement is not mean enough for you to run and tell on me to the mods. Geez.

[Charles22]

Try to look at this positively: Deep throat is not going to be a problem.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

When he ejaculated into his underpants on the first attempt, I would have chuckled and gently laughed it off. On the second attempt when the same thing happened (and given all the great conversations we'd shared and how apparently compatible we were in so many different areas) I would have said something along the lines of, "I really enjoy you so much but (and I know this is probably a difficult thing to talk about) but premature ejaculation isn't a bad thing and can we talk about it?"

The third rime, well, it hadn't been talked about and thus the elephant was in the room, and it wasn't talked about then either.

Been there done that. Sometimes, just sometimes, we oldsters have something to contribute. Hope that clarifies!

I disagree. I think it's only worth talking about it if you plan to continue being with him.

[optiflex]

Heh heh heh

This has only been around a month, and pretty soon it's going to rival the What did you do today to make yourself happy thread. Very telling!

[MissLucky]

Eh.

Whatever.

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

I disagree. I think it's only worth talking about it if you plan to continue being with him.

Well obviously she's moved onto someone else but your basic point eludes me. When she first met him and dated him she was by her own admission quite enchanted with the conversation, the shared interests, etc. The sexual attraction was obviously there. Guess I'm wrong in assuming from her posts that she hoped the relationship would prosper despite his shortcomings. No battle here, no fight, I simply stated my point of view based on the given information, having been there and done that. Cheers!

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

Well obviously she's moved onto someone else but your basic point eludes me. When she first met him and dated him she was by her own admission quite enchanted with the conversation, the shared interests, etc. The sexual attraction was obviously there. Guess I'm wrong in assuming from her posts that she hoped the relationship would prosper despite his shortcomings. No battle here, no fight, I simply stated my point of view based on the given information, having been there and done that. Cheers!

Well, at the time she was still willing to give him a chance, I agreed with talking about it and even suggested how to do it more gently, but if you see the problem is really not fixable and you're ready to move on, I don't think there's need for discussing it...

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

Well obviously she's moved onto someone else but your basic point eludes me. When she first met him and dated him she was by her own admission quite enchanted with the conversation, the shared interests, etc. The sexual attraction was obviously there. Guess I'm wrong in assuming from her posts that she hoped the relationship would prosper despite his shortcomings. No battle here, no fight, I simply stated my point of view based on the given information, having been there and done that. Cheers!

I never said that I was enchanted with him. I said I enjoyed his company, never said "enchanted" nor a synonym of it. And no, the sexual attraction was not "obviously" there, nor subtly.

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by Braunwyn

I'm still not following what the big deal is. If anything, as far as I can see it, she's played nice with this guy.

I feel I did too. I saw him for two months and decided we aren't compatible sexually. That's fair; I am quite sure I have been dumped for lessor reasons than extremely poor sexual performance.