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I really don't think he "deserves" to hear the truth. Not all truths need to be told. If you've already made up your mind to move on, you can do it without discussing his premature ejaculation--a problem I'm sure he's aware of but hasn't sought a solution to after all these years. Some truths are better left untold. Unless he specifically asks for some feedback regarding the sex, I'd let it go and tell him you'd like to remain friends.
I really don't think he "deserves" to hear the truth. Not all truths need to be told. If you've already made up your mind to move on, you can do it without discussing his premature ejaculation--a problem I'm sure he's aware of but hasn't sought a solution to after all these years. Some truths are better left untold. Unless he specifically asks for some feedback regarding the sex, I'd let it go and tell him you'd like to remain friends.
Oh, I absolutely agree with this. I suggested a better approach when talking about it just in case she's still on the fence about staying with him. Otherwise, there's no need for such discussions.
I really don't think he "deserves" to hear the truth. Not all truths need to be told. If you've already made up your mind to move on, you can do it without discussing his premature ejaculation--a problem I'm sure he's aware of but hasn't sought a solution to after all these years. Some truths are better left untold. Unless he specifically asks for some feedback regarding the sex, I'd let it go and tell him you'd like to remain friends.
I agree. I didn't and wouldn't say anything. People know. We all know our short comings regarding sex. Discuss, if you're going to stay and build something. I tried to turn my guy into a girlfriend. It didn't work, because he wanted to continue to have sex. He wasn't a preemie -- his problem was his erections. Well, lack of it.
One thing tho. My guy was younger, so he told me. He mentioned it has happened in the past. Give him 20 minutes and he's okay. Yeah, 20 minutes I could be home pleasuring myself. Sorry dude.
Last Saturday I had a fifth date with someone I've been seeing. I wasn't that attracted to him at first, but he really liked me so I gave him a chance. This thing has been SLOW moving. Our first kiss was on the third date, a 5 second kiss. Fourth date, we made out for about 10 minutes (and I finally found myself sexually attracted to him as a result). After our fifth date, he asked me to go back to his place. We didn't have sex, but did get naked and do everything but...and I really enjoyed it, A LOT to be honet, because it turns out he is an incredibly passionate person... but as I said there is a small problem...
He has a really tiny penis. Really, it is the smallest I've ever come across in my life. It's 3-4 inches while at full salute, and no I am not exaggerating. I kit admit I'm a little worried about having sex with this guy - will it be really disappointing? Has anyone here been down this road, started sleeping with a guy who is super tiny? Is it possible that it would be enjoyable? Has he slow-played the sex in order to trap me before laying the teeny tiny on me?
This guy is very smitten with me, and as such treats me very well. He's not my "type" but then again, I'm not so focused on dating my type anymore.
As for an update, to those who have followed this thread without clutching rosary beads, I am about to go to his place for dinner. I'm sure there will be no sex! But I like talking to the guy so why stop?
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Yvette, why are you so invested in the e-writings of a total stranger, especially one you have a problem with? I suggest you join meetup.com, netflix etc... There are plenty of things for you to do other than whine and cry over the lives of 2 total strangers.
As for an update, to those who have followed this thread without clutching rosary beads, I am about to go to his place for dinner. I'm sure there will be no sex! But I like talking to the guy so why stop?
Have fun! Hopefully it works out the best for both of you
As for an update, to those who have followed this thread without clutching rosary beads, I am about to go to his place for dinner. I'm sure there will be no sex! But I like talking to the guy so why stop?
I sure didn't hold any rosary beeds...
You are having fun sans sex... Why not enjoy that time.
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You are having fun sans sex... Why not enjoy that time.
Good advice, wish I had taken it. We finally had sex last night. It was the worst sex I've ever had in my life. I had better sex when I was a teenager, legs semi-spread in the back of a VW bug.
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