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Old 06-24-2011, 09:32 AM
 
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You're still seeing this sad story?! Dump him already and continue to be used by jerks with bigger tools! We can never really change our destiny, because oral isn't enough.

 
Old 06-24-2011, 09:35 AM
 
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Can tall men have tiny "things"?
 
Old 06-24-2011, 09:45 AM
 
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the simple solution is to move on, if for some reason he asks how is performance was with you THEN you can reveal how poor it was, but otherwise I would leave it alone. Sounds like a two pump chump, move on!!
 
Old 06-24-2011, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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I'm liking Onglet the more and more she post.
 
Old 06-24-2011, 10:04 AM
 
Location: NYC
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I'm wondering if this might have been a good opportunity for the OP to do a little teaching. Maybe he just doesnt know how to have sex.
If im going to teach someone about sex, it's going to be a hot 20-something with a banging body, not a middle aged man.
 
Old 06-24-2011, 11:02 AM
 
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The guy is a dysfunctional jerk. The whole thing sounds like the story of two awkward teenagers. He behaved like a dumbass before and no man that age doesn't know that this kind of thing is wrong. It almost sounds abusive in a sick twisted sexual way yet Ong just kept going back.
 
Old 06-24-2011, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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tamajane wrote:
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The guy is a dysfunctional jerk. The whole thing sounds like the story of two awkward teenagers. He behaved like a dumbass before and no man that age doesn't know that this kind of thing is wrong. It almost sounds abusive in a sick twisted sexual way yet Ong just kept going back.
This thread has definitely become a little mean spirited. The guy sounds to me like a basicly decent person who happens to have a sexual problem which doesn't make him a jerk. Onglet has just honestly expressed her frustration with the situation and I see nothing wrong whatsoever in her behavior or any of her posts in this thread.
 
Old 06-24-2011, 11:26 AM
 
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tamajane wrote:
This thread has definitely become a little mean spirited. The guy sounds to me like a basicly decent person who happens to have a sexual problem which doesn't make him a jerk. Onglet has just honestly expressed her frustration with the situation and I see nothing wrong whatsoever in her behavior or any of her posts in this thread.
Well it is his behavior regarding the dysfunction that is disturbing. Like it is a normal thing and any woman just better deal with it. Very selfish.
 
Old 06-24-2011, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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tamajane wrote:
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Well it is his behavior regarding the dysfunction that is disturbing. Like it is a normal thing and any woman just better deal with it. Very selfish.
The descriptions of his behavior didn't strike me that way at all. She said he was very embarrased and apologetic about not being able to engage in a sexual act. She also said that she had enjoyed his company and his personality and that the only problem was this sexual disorder which caused her to lose interest. I would think that this situation must be extremely difficult for him and frustrating for her as well. People have all sorts of physical ailments which we don't criticize them for because they can't help it. But anything to do with sex has a certain stigma about it and will often cause emotional and psychological difficulties as well. I honestly just feel bad for the guy.
 
Old 06-24-2011, 11:39 AM
 
Location: Toledo
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Well it is his behavior regarding the dysfunction that is disturbing. Like it is a normal thing and any woman just better deal with it. Very selfish.

Well it does seem like the guy tried to make up for it in another way. All I see here is a sexual incompatibility. No one's a jerk or sl*t because of that.
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