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This is straight up Jerry Springer.. There's no way he should be getting married to anyone if he is Bi.. As for the virgin thing from my experience the woman just hasn't met the right person. I have seen women so called saving themselves for marriage then along comes some other guy and Bam..Boots are knocking..Then once the flood gate is opened the story changes..
This is straight up Jerry Springer.. There's no way he should be getting married to anyone if he is Bi.. As for the virgin thing from my experience the woman just hasn't met the right person. I have seen women so called saving themselves for marriage then along comes some other guy and Bam..Boots are knocking..Then once the flood gate is opened the story changes..
We are both in our early twenties and she is still a virgin. I am not sure on how to deal with this as a thought. I love her and we are wanting to be married, but the whole virgin thing just throws me. She is waiting-until-marriage but I'm not sure on how to feel about it. It's like it's one of those things you see. You understand it, you appreciate it very much, you love it no matter what it is, you accept it, but you don't know what to do about it. (If you are understanding my babbling please help me). She and I are wanting to get married at some point in the next few years but at the moment we are trying to get our lives straightened out before joining them. But the virgin part is something that I accept from her but it's odd (not bad odd but odd). Again, if you understand this post I would like to have your input.
It is odd. Odd that you found a virgin in this immoral world.
For you to view it anything but special is odd on you part.
She will have a special connection with you that she has never had with any other guy. Something that will bond you both together. Don't screw it up!
Now, for the rest of you who still wish to speak against my feeling of intimidation that she is a virgin, I haven't seen or heard of a girl my age who was still a virgin besides her. For those of you who think I shouldn't give up, I still (for some ungodly reason) haven't given up my hope that one day she and I will be together again, but as far as doing something to get her back, she has gone silent. Except on her birthday when I wished her happy birthday. She said "thank you" but when I tried to start another conversation that was it. I love her and I will do anything to get her back, but at the moment, I have no resources to do anything, nor the education to access such resources. Right now, I figured I would better my situation before pursuing her or doing anything of the sort. And if none of you don't like what I had to say on this, don't comment anymore.
You know what the funniest thing is about this whole thing is? It's like I can feel her laying next to me in bed when I go to go to bed or sometimes it feels as if she is hugging me. I can feel her still with me. Like a spirit would be, but not. I guess it's just odd to say this but I feel like it is true and there isn't anything that says that she is truly gone from me. I don't know. I take comfort in it though. It just feels like I could hold her in my arms still, but she isn't physically here with me. What do you think y'all? Am I just imagining things or is this something that is common? (I honestly think I'm a bit off my rocker with this but I want to leave it up to the populaces).
I wouldn't marry a virgin... I would want honest feedback about sexual performance, and how can she do that if she has nothing to compare it to? However, it would be a non-issue for me, because I tend to break it off if it goes three or four dates without sex.
Well, both of you are supposed to be virgins anyway... consider it a good thing, like you mentioned. It may not be "normal" in this world, but it's definitely a desired trait. I'd rather have a virgin than a used girl.
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