I slept with his wife ... (how to, woman, love, cheating)

[UntrueFriend]

Hi my best friend and i have been friends for 35 years since we were in grade 2. We share a lot of things together and the bond between us is so incredible that we would finish each others sentences and predict thoughts.

How ever since he has been working offshore I have been getting to know his beautiful wife a little more than just friends. The affair started 9 months ago and i am just totally inlove with her.

When he is around i would gaze in to her eyes and he still doesn't know it. I would pinch her back side and rub it quickly when we walk pass each other at when ever i am over at their house. It is so intense i would quickly kiss her passionately when he is busy doing something.

My dilemma is this: i don't want to lose my friendship and i do not want to let her go because the sex is just out of this world.

Sex with her is like being on cracks - I am just totally addicted.

What should i do? I want to keep her and still be friends with him.

[purehuman]

If you must kiss his wife, then you can kiss your friend goodbye.Too bad that the sex with his wife is more important to you than the long very close relationship you've had with your friend.I think that if he finds out, you stand to loose both.

[Bondurant]

I get the feeling this may be a gag. If not all I can say is you don't really value this guys friendship at all despite what you claim. You crossed a line no friend would cross and the wife is worthless as well.

[yankeegirl313]

Maybe the two of you could keep "getting off on each other' when his back is turned!
You need to come clean with him and tell him that you and his wife are having this heated affair. Who knows..maybe he will ditch her, and you can be there to pick her up!
Besides..if you two are as close as you say, then nine times out of ten, he knows about it anyway.

[OngletNYC]

It's one thing to cheat - yes it is terrible but it happens all of the time. However, cheating with the best friend of your spouse is usually done with a purpose. You are in love with a woman who would not only cheat on her husband, but is doing it in one of the most humiliating ways possible. She's a nasty piece of work. And the flip side is, you are the type of guy who would stab a life long best friend in the back, in his own home, making you a nasty piece of work too. This whole thing is going to end very badly - there is no good outcome.

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

Come on!! Are you guys really taking this person seriously!? Look at his username! Untruefriend! Looks like someone better alert the troll patrol!

[robee70]

Originally Posted by UntrueFriend

What should i do? I want to keep her and still be friends with him.

I'm kind of having a hard time believing this one.

Someone doing what you are doing doesn't really ask how to keep on doing what they're doing.

That's the only way they can continue having sex with a friend's wife behind their friend's back and stay their friend.

[lovesMountains]

If you feed them they only grow

[malamute]

Originally Posted by Bondurant

I get the feeling this may be a gag. If not all I can say is you don't really value this guys friendship at all despite what you claim. You crossed a line no friend would cross and the wife is worthless as well.

Same here.

Otherwise, ask your buddy if he believes in polyamory and maybe if maybe he'd be interested in a three-way and get this out into the open.

[malamute]

Originally Posted by CancerianMoonPrincess

Come on!! Are you guys really taking this person seriously!? Look at his username! Untruefriend! Looks like someone better alert the troll patrol!

I know but it's funny.

Of course no one could expect to keep a best friend while screwing the friend's wife. But no one who is a friend would do that in the first place.

"Pals before Gals"

and "My wife ran away with my best friend....... I really do miss him."