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Old 06-01-2011, 12:29 PM
 
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Originally Posted by West of Encino View Post
Child support is sexist and extortion.
Really? And who should pay to raise a child? The taxpayers?
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:33 PM
 
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What is that all about?? I think doing something like that would be completely irresponsible, don't you think?? Why would someone do that?
Are these the same women that some guys refer to as easy, like having sex on the first date?
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:37 PM
 
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Are these the same women that some guys refer to as easy, like having sex on the first date?
I would say some of the time, yes. They are. Which is probably why they are easy. So they can make a trade. One night of fun in exchange for 18+ years of child support (which I doubt they use for the child).
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:39 PM
 
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Trapping poor, innocent men, that is.

Do they put giant leghold traps where the men walk so the thing will spring shut when he steps on it?

Do they conduct roundups and force the men into corrals?
See it the other way around without sympathy…when women get pregnant from a guy that said was using protection who happens to be a guy without a job, degrees, a car, etc. And then not be able to “provide”. Who’s the villain there or the victim?

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Weight gain???? You reduced that list to WEIGHT GAIN??

Not sure why I bothered, really.
You list all kinds of things women can go through, not like women go through each one of those. Besides, that only lasts you 9 months compared to 18 years guys have to go through to feed the mother and the child. Take a pick: 9 months of some of those things you liste compared to 18 years of financial burden. You can also pick to get pregnant by a rich guy and call it a career move.

So yeah, lots of women use this as a career move when they spot a rich guy to get pregnant with.

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Old 06-01-2011, 12:40 PM
 
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I would say some of the time, yes. They are. Which is probably why they are easy. So they can make a trade. One night of fun in exchange for 18+ years of child support (which I doubt they use for the child).
Well, if the guy thought he was making a good trade, why should anybody question his negotiating skills?
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:41 PM
 
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I would say some of the time, yes. They are. Which is probably why they are easy. So they can make a trade. One night of fun in exchange for 18+ years of child support (which I doubt they use for the child).
When these women score a rich man’s baby do you really think 5-figure monthly checks for more than 18 years will be all used 100% for the child? Yeah right.
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:44 PM
 
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Well, if the guy thought he was making a good trade, why should anybody question his negotiating skills?
Hahaha good point. As Michael Jackson said in his song "So take my strong advice. Just remember to always think twice. Do think twice."
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:46 PM
 
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When these women score a rich man’s baby do you really think 5-figure monthly checks for more than 18 years will be all used 100% for the child? Yeah right.
Ya I know! I hate it when some women abuse the child support system.
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:47 PM
 
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ChessieMom,
A woman goes through those 9 months (not every woman goes through all those symptoms by the way) while a man that didn’t want the baby is put through more than 18 years of financial burden. 9 months vs 18+ YEARS, take a pick.

I agree with the 9 months vs 8 years....And btw a woman that complains about having all them symptoms should of been using birth control to avoid all the problems.
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Old 06-01-2011, 01:01 PM
 
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i have known several women who have used their "mommy support checks" for themselves. one went on 2 cruises a year...without her kids. another got loads of plastic surgery. the poor kids always looked ..well...poor.
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