Has anyone ever felt like this before? (married, girl, love)

[tweetybird11208]

Ok you want to be with someone and you find them REALLY physically attractive but at the same time you are scared of them?

[jessicaTX]

Scared of them how?

[Ceece]

No

[CancerianMoonPrincess]

If by scared you mean nervous, then yes. There are a few guys at my school who are really hot but I don't really have the guts to talk to them or flirt with them.

[Pierce2011]

Yep! I married him.....had lots of fun and now we're divorced. Good times.

[ferretkona]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

Ok you want to be with someone and you find them REALLY physically attractive but at the same time you are scared of them?

That is what we call true love. Hard pounding of the heart when kissed. It could even make a old girl feel like a virgin.

[imsh0t]

you have to be more detailed about why you're scared... If your scared because your excited or nervous thats ok. If your scared because he seems dangerous or you fear relationships/getting close, thats another.

You only mentioned physical attraction, i hope you are compatible personally as well...

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

Ok you want to be with someone and you find them REALLY physically attractive but at the same time you are scared of them?

Have you even talked to him/her yet, or are you just "admiring them" and "dreaming?"

[Coolhand68]

Originally Posted by tweetybird11208

Ok you want to be with someone and you find them REALLY physically attractive but at the same time you are scared of them?

I've felt nervous or apprehensive about approaching them if that's what you mean. I think you'll find that once you get to know that person they often have similar insecurities. Some of the most attractive people I've met were also some of the most insecure. Just treat them like everyone else, then feel them out to see if there is a mutual attraction.

[purehuman]

I hope you're confusing being scared with being excited and nervous...which are both fairly normal reactions when you're in the company of someone you are extremely attracted to.