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I have a feeling that one male acquaintance of mine is managing me in his herd of backlog women. I never initiate contact, but this guy e-mails me at least once or twice a month (as if he doesn't want me to totally forget about him). I've always replied out of courtesy, but recently I started thinking of playing him. I am not hung up on him as I am having dates with other guys. To me, it's more like the war of the sexes type of thing (and believe me, this acquaintance of mine deserves some playing--or being played--it's my impression that he is a casual herder). Anyway, advice welcome!
I have a feeling that one male acquaintance of mine is managing me in his herd of backlog women. I never initiate contact, but this guy e-mails me at least once or twice a month (as if he doesn't want me to totally forget about him). I've always replied out of courtesy, but recently I started thinking of playing him. I am not hung up on him as I am having dates with other guys. To me, it's more like the war of the sexes type of thing (and believe me, this acquaintance of mine deserves some playing--or being played--it's my impression that he is a casual herder). Anyway, advice welcome!
Ipgreen
If he plays the game and you're willing to play, play him.
[it's only a war of the sexes if the participants don't know or refuse to follow a set of rules for what they are doing]
I have a feeling that one male acquaintance of mine is managing me in his herd of backlog women. I never initiate contact, but this guy e-mails me at least once or twice a month (as if he doesn't want me to totally forget about him). I've always replied out of courtesy, but recently I started thinking of playing him. I am not hung up on him as I am having dates with other guys. To me, it's more like the war of the sexes type of thing (and believe me, this acquaintance of mine deserves some playing--or being played--it's my impression that he is a casual herder). Anyway, advice welcome!
Ipgreen
Games are for children.
If you are interested in him, respond when he makes contact.
If you are not interested in him for whatever reason just ignore him.
There is nothing wrong with a person dating numerous people or playing the field, as long as they are not in a relationship.
I have a feeling that one male acquaintance of mine is managing me in his herd of backlog women. I never initiate contact, but this guy e-mails me at least once or twice a month (as if he doesn't want me to totally forget about him). I've always replied out of courtesy, but recently I started thinking of playing him. I am not hung up on him as I am having dates with other guys. To me, it's more like the war of the sexes type of thing (and believe me, this acquaintance of mine deserves some playing--or being played--it's my impression that he is a casual herder). Anyway, advice welcome!
Ipgreen
did you happen to meet this person online? just curious... sounds like many of the "creatures" that have been created from the online dating scene... I may have a few stories to share
If he is experienced in the game and you have to seek advice from this forum, I suggest reconsidering your little war of the sexes. Highly unlikely it works out in your favor.
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ipgreen... wondering
