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Because seeing pretty woman reminds him that he is still single. And he wants to be in a relationship with a pretty girl.
I think that the OP needs to get a reality check. It's pathetic that he's only attracted to young college age women, and isn't attracted to women his own age (30). Most 30 year old women are NOT 300 pounds, and they certainly are not all ugly.
The OP is only going to get older, and if his perfect dream girl is a pretty college co-ed, then his quality of life is only going to get worse since as the years go by, he will turn into a 40 plus year old man still attracted only to 20 year olds. His taste in women is frozen in time. And as the age gap widens, the creepier he is going to seem to those he admires.
And since he is so focused on pretty college age women, I think it's because he doesn't know any of them well... so that he doesn't realize that they aren't at all compatible with him personality-wise and that they don't have any interests in common.
Here in Athens, GA you'll find a bunch of attractive women dating rednecks, wiggers and silver-spoon douchebags. (And the girls with lousy fathers are upping the ante by ****ing ghetto sleaze now.) Now that's really depressing. They're all gonna be used up by 25, guaranteed.
I don't know what wiggers are (Google: Wigger is a pejorative slang term for a white person who emulates mannerisms, language, and fashions associated with African-American culture) but "silver-spoon douchebags" is a good description of one of their prime interests. Add to that, good looking jocks who also have the inside track and are usually the only type that doesn't have the lure of money.
BTW, it's not just the "attractive women" who go for these guys but they certainly have the best chance to land one.
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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle
Have you asked any of these women out, or are you just staring at them from afar?
No point unless he's what they are looking for. Few men are at that age.
It's funny but the media has all these article about how difficult it is on campus to find a man, with female enrollment being 60 to 70% yet they are all going for the same 15%, just as they've done for the past 40 years. I suppose that this makes it marginally more difficult.
I would suggest seeing a therapist and possibly consider medication. And I'm totally not being a jerk here I mean seriously though you may have some deep seeded anxiety issues.
If I have 0 social skills, then there is nothing to work on. There is no hope. I have 0 social skills, and I never will. The last time I had a friend was in 8th grade. I think I have Asperger's. I have acquaintances at work, but I wouldn't say any of us are really friends. I never want to become friends with anybody because friendship turns into drama and responsibility. Whenever I go to somebody's house or try to help them move or something I always screw something up. I am a clutz. Last time I helped someone move, I broke his shed and the others had to spend almost an hour fixing it. I am a hopeless piece of garbage, and of no benefit to the world, except for my parents, who still need me.
Read this and ask yourself if you would want to be friends with yourself. You are like a swift kick to the seeds. Work on changing your outlook.
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