Spinoff : Is it depressing for women to see attractive men? (how to, kids)

[OngletNYC]

Originally Posted by Texas User

True. Women have lots of option and they know they can get a lot of guys.

If the average guy has lot of money then no problem.

What is really comes down to is this: men step down for casual sex, and women step up.

[Neemy]

I don't spend much time on college campuses these days, but I can say that when I see an attractive man, wherever it is, it's certainly not depressing.

Yesterday there was a VERY fine guy working the pharmacy, and he seemed to be flirting with me. I wasn't "depressed" at all, I was actually proud of myself that I was playing it really cool with him while we were chatting. Then the idiot in me came out. When I handed him my credit card, I was going to hint that I was single by mentioning that the last name on my card was "my divorced name, I go by my married name, now." I meant "maiden". MAIDEN NAME!!! He said "Have a nice day, Mrs [my last name].". I walked away kicking myself. So now I have to somehow find a way to go back there and subtly let him know I am SINGLE.

Anyone need a prescription filled??

So, depressing? No. Frustrating? Sometimes. If you're a bonehead like me.

[lionking]

Originally Posted by Neemy

I don't spend much time on college campuses these days, but I can say that when I see an attractive man, wherever it is, it's certainly not depressing.

Yesterday there was a VERY fine guy working the pharmacy, and he seemed to be flirting with me. I wasn't "depressed" at all, I was actually proud of myself that I was playing it really cool with him while we were chatting. Then the idiot in me came out. When I handed him my credit card, I was going to hint that I was single by mentioning that the last name on my card was "my divorced name, I go by my married name, now." I meant "maiden". MAIDEN NAME!!! He said "Have a nice day, Mrs [my last name].". I walked away kicking myself. So now I have to somehow find a way to go back there and subtly let him know I am SINGLE.

Anyone need a prescription filled??

So, depressing? No. Frustrating? Sometimes. If you're a bonehead like me.

Haha too funny!

[Neemy]

Originally Posted by lionking

Haha too funny!

Yeah, I'm a smooooooooooooth one.

[NJBest]

Originally Posted by Texas User

True. Women have lots of option and they know they can get a lot of guys.

If the average guy has lot of money then no problem.

If you feel that is true, why not just get some money?

As a guy, we spend a good amount of the day just landing a girl for the night. So yea, maybe we have to put some effort into it. But let's face it.... we're successful most of the time. So I don't see the point of saying it's easier for girls to get their pickings of guys. Us guys are getting our fair share of girls.

It's not like if a (normal/stable) guy wants to get laid, he's going to fail.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by Neemy

I don't spend much time on college campuses these days, but I can say that when I see an attractive man, wherever it is, it's certainly not depressing.

Yesterday there was a VERY fine guy working the pharmacy, and he seemed to be flirting with me. I wasn't "depressed" at all, I was actually proud of myself that I was playing it really cool with him while we were chatting. Then the idiot in me came out. When I handed him my credit card, I was going to hint that I was single by mentioning that the last name on my card was "my divorced name, I go by my married name, now." I meant "maiden". MAIDEN NAME!!! He said "Have a nice day, Mrs [my last name].". I walked away kicking myself. So now I have to somehow find a way to go back there and subtly let him know I am SINGLE.

Anyone need a prescription filled??

So, depressing? No. Frustrating? Sometimes. If you're a bonehead like me.

Is he a pharm tech or a pharmacist?

[Neemy]

Originally Posted by Texas User

Is he a pharm tech or a pharmacist?

No clue. I'm lucky I thought to look at his name tag.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by NJBest

If you feel that is true, why not just get some money?

As a guy, we spend a good amount of the day just landing a girl for the night. So yea, maybe we have to put some effort into it. But let's face it.... we're successful most of the time. So I don't see the point of saying it's easier for girls to get their pickings of guys. Us guys are getting our fair share of girls.

It's not like if a (normal/stable) guy wants to get laid, he's going to fail.

Can't buy love and emotions with money.

[Texas User]

Originally Posted by Neemy

No clue. I'm lucky I thought to look at his name tag.

Atleast you can ask him next time lol.

[SandyCo]

I love seeing attractive men! There are some men who jog around here as I'm driving home from work, and they are serious works of art. Of course, it helps that I prefer men who don't look like they're permanently on steroids, but in decent shape.

On the flip side, there are also older men who obviously don't look at themselves before they venture outside shirtless.