Is there any hope for this man to be straight? Probably not but I'll ask. (lesbian, woman)

[blondiel]

Follow your intuition and move on. From your post, he may or may not be gay, but if you are not feeling right about his sexual orientation, why would you want to pursue a relationship?

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by donie1

There's a little thing called communication so that you can figure out someone and not analyze and grow something from a mole hill into a mountain in your head. Seriously, you don't have to ask him point blank if he's gay but you can ask him what his girlfriend thinks or what his past girlfriend thought of whatever. Get him into a general conversation and find out.

I think it's so wrong to sterotype people. What you described is a clean-cut person that cares about his appearance. He could be a metrosexual (which that's what he sounds like).

By you thinking and analyzing someone is doing an injustice to them and yourself. You're wasting too much time trying to figure someone out when that's all you have to do is ask questions tactfully while communicating with him.

Metrosexual? Now, you are stereotyping

[D217]

Originally Posted by bobman

Are you telling me that pretty much every single women on the planet is gay?

Well if it were my intention to say that I probably would have said "every single woman" instead of "every single women"...

But no.


The OP said he checks out good looking guys for up to a minute...if I caught my bf doing that I'd think he was gay too.

[Yzette]

Originally Posted by Beilua Rose

- Casually looks at a good-looking man for more than 5 seconds but less than 1 minute.

What, are you standing there with a stopwatch?

[D217]

Originally Posted by Yzette

What, are you standing there with a stopwatch?

"1-mississippi,2-mississippi...!" lol

[Beilua Rose]

Originally Posted by Yzette

What, are you standing there with a stopwatch?

Yes. In fact, I am.


"sarcasm"

[bobman]

More than 5 seconds but less than a minute could be 6 seconds.

So, are we to presume, 5 seconds, straight, 30 seconds, bi-curious, 1 minute, screaming homo ?

[Beilua Rose]

Originally Posted by bobman

More than 5 seconds but less than a minute could be 6 seconds.

So, are we to presume, 5 seconds, straight, 30 seconds, bi-curious, 1 minute, screaming homo ?

Yep.

Come on guys, you are all trying to either be cute and funny or you are taking this too literal. I was trying to get as many characteristics as possible so that people who may have experience with more relationships could help me out. No need to degrade the OP. Thank you.

[bobman]

To be fair, you appear to be only listening to replies who agree with you, so for the rest of us who think you'll never know unless you ask him, then we might as well brighten the thread up a little !

You have taken stereotypes. NOT characteristics.

I know some gay men who are the most "manly" guys you could meet, yet i know some straight men who you would swear were gay.

Originally Posted by Beilua Rose

Yep.

Come on guys, you are all trying to either be cute and funny or you are taking this too literal. I was trying to get as many characteristics as possible so that people who may have experience with more relationships could help me out. No need to degrade the OP. Thank you.

[Sweet Like Sugar]

It can be really hard to tell if someone is gay these days. You just never know.