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View Poll Results: Have you ever been to a key party and would you consider it if not
yes I have been to one 3 2.52%
No I have never been to one 13 10.92%
No I have never been to one but would consider it 23 19.33%
No I have never been to one and would never even consider it 80 67.23%
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Old 06-18-2011, 08:29 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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I am certainly not equating social injustice or the past evils of history as good or beneficial.

I just wish for the days when ppl...both women and men...were more innocent When a sweetheart couple, could actually still get married relatively young, and not be artificially impeded by mass societal pressure to wait until they're over 30 already. When a first or other early love, was much more likely to turn into a permanent love, and a husband or wife. When a husband and wife, were much more likely to be virginal, on their wedding night, and having saved that special loving gift, solely for each other.

Society simply no longer makes it easy for young ppl to get married, anymore. Hollywood shoves what's essentially porn down our throats like it's candy, dehumanizing women horribly. Divorces for trivial reasons are so commonplace that it's completely ridiculous.

Am I saying the old days were perfect? Not at all. In some ways they were much worse. But the converse is also true.
What good is it to be more innocent; when everybody else is less innocent? Consider an analogy to foreign policy and politics; States don't get any respect until they are less innocent and join the nuclear club.
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Old 06-19-2011, 08:01 AM
 
Location: NYC
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In general, swingers are a hideous group of people. I went with a friend to a swinger's nightclub here in NYC a couple of years, and the thought of any of those people touching me was absolutely revolting. If I'm going to have casual sex, it has to be with someone hot, not with some dude who looks like Dennis Franz. To be fair, I'd guess that attractive swingers don't need to go to clubs and organized events in order to get laid - they can make it happen on their own. So a key party? No way!
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Old 06-19-2011, 08:59 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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That hasn't been my impression of swingers, on the internet; but I usually do have to wade through a lot porn to get to some decent videos. Besides, I thought many swingers were friends of some sort who happen to swing. A key party, from my perspective not necessarily an orgy.
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Old 06-19-2011, 10:19 AM
 
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In general, swingers are a hideous group of people. I went with a friend to a swinger's nightclub here in NYC a couple of years, and the thought of any of those people touching me was absolutely revolting.
If you are talking about la trapeze in Manhattan, sadly you are correct, though it is not indicative of real swingers. In fact, most of the people who go there are not swingers at all, rather it's men stepping out on their wives with bought and paid for companions.
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Old 06-19-2011, 10:54 AM
 
Location: NYC
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If you are talking about la trapeze in Manhattan, sadly you are correct, though it is not indicative of real swingers. In fact, most of the people who go there are not swingers at all, rather it's men stepping out on their wives with bought and paid for companions.
If those were paid companions, they were the fattest, oldest, ugliest hookers i have ever seen.
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Old 06-19-2011, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Emerald Coast, FL
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If those were paid companions, they were the fattest, oldest, ugliest hookers i have ever seen.
They could be wives, or even g/f's. Amazingly, fat, old, ugly people like sex too! What a concept.
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Old 06-19-2011, 11:06 AM
 
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If those were paid companions, they were the fattest, oldest, ugliest hookers i have ever seen.
I've been to every lifestyle club NYC has to offer, and your description is only valid at le trap. Unless you are expecting nothing but 20-something hard bodies, in which case it is your expectations that need adjusting.
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Old 06-19-2011, 11:11 AM
 
Location: NYC
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They could be wives, or even g/f's. Amazingly, fat, old, ugly people like sex too! What a concept.
Of course they were, dentalfloss is the one who came along to claim these women were prostitutes. You missed my sarcasm.

And yes, fat old ugly peple do like sex.... which is why the thought of bedding a swinger isnt appealing to me. As i just said, if i am having casual sex, it is going to be with someone attractive, NOT an ugly swinger. Dating? Love? Thats a different matter. But if its just about sex with strangers, no uglies need to apply here.
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Old 06-19-2011, 11:23 AM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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I was under the impression that swingers did not necessarily engage in sex with strangers, but friends and acquaintances. Sex for sport is what I usually consider sex with strangers.
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Old 06-19-2011, 12:59 PM
 
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I've been to every lifestyle club NYC has to offer, and your description is only valid at le trap. Unless you are expecting nothing but 20-something hard bodies, in which case it is your expectations that need adjusting.
I went to le Trapeze years ago and trust me, there we many many regular looking people there. Beer bellies and all.
That's what made it real.




Amazing summer I had there. My wife still has no clue.
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