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View Poll Results: Have you ever been to a key party and would you consider it if not
yes I have been to one 4 3.31%
No I have never been to one 13 10.74%
No I have never been to one but would consider it 24 19.83%
No I have never been to one and would never even consider it 80 66.12%
Voters: 121. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-19-2011, 02:37 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Of course they were, dentalfloss is the one who came along to claim these women were prostitutes. You missed my sarcasm.

And yes, fat old ugly peple do like sex.... which is why the thought of bedding a swinger isnt appealing to me. As i just said, if i am having casual sex, it is going to be with someone attractive, NOT an ugly swinger. Dating? Love? Thats a different matter. But if its just about sex with strangers, no uglies need to apply here.
Well, I certainly don't blame you for your preferences. Of course, swingers come in all shapes, sizes, ages, and degrees of attractiveness. Like gravitates to like, in swinging as in most other relationships, I think. You still have the ability to choose or decline.
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Old 06-19-2011, 03:09 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Well, I certainly don't blame you for your preferences. Of course, swingers come in all shapes, sizes, ages, and degrees of attractiveness. Like gravitates to like, in swinging as in most other relationships, I think. You still have the ability to choose or decline.
Agian, yell at dentalfloss for claiming swinger chicks are hookers.
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Old 06-19-2011, 03:19 PM
 
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Agian, yell at dentalfloss for claiming swinger chicks are hookers.
That's not what I said.

I said in my personal experience as well as that of more than a few personal friends, the clientell at le trap tends to be men, mostly older, with hookers. I am not saying swinger women are hookers, I'm saying the hookers myself and others have witnessed are hookers, and I stand by that. I haven't been there in years so it may have changed, or maybe not, regardless if you are saying every swing club in NYC is full of fat old people, you clearly have not visited every swing club in NYC, for I can tell you from personal experience that's not the case.

As someone else pointed out, swingers look just like the rest of society and they run the gamut of age, weight, attractiveness, etc.

On the other hand, if you were expecting real world swingers to look like they do when someone makes a porno and titles it Swingfest Volume 762, you need to learn the difference between fantasy and reality.
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Old 06-19-2011, 05:11 PM
 
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XXXTo whomever sent me the comment of how I'm not worthy of my wife because I messed around behind her back.XXX
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Let me clarify my post.
When I spent the summer at Trapeze I WAS NOT MARRIED. In fact, I hadn't even met my wife yet. I was a single guy in my 20s.
The reason my wife still doesn't know I went there is because I don't need her thinking I was a bigger pig than she already knows.
She knows I slept with a lot of women, but not that it was a lot of 45+ year old women that wanted to get drunk and high with a 20 year old me.

You couldn't pay me to do anything like that ever again. I would never risk my marriage for a piece of azz.
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Old 06-19-2011, 06:43 PM
 
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So, if I read the poll correctly, about one respondent in every 6 wouldn't mind checking it out.

16% x 6 is
= 96
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Old 06-19-2011, 07:32 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Well, I certainly don't blame you for your preferences. Of course, swingers come in all shapes, sizes, ages, and degrees of attractiveness. Like gravitates to like, in swinging as in most other relationships, I think. You still have the ability to choose or decline.
Yes, and I DO decline. Because they sicken me.

and so long as we are chatting:
This thread seeks opinions, and I have give mine. Why are your panties all bunched up over it? I am entitled to have my own personal opinion on this subject just as you are entitled to have yours. I haven't tried to argue anyone else's opinion out of them, why are you so concerned with arguing with me over mine? My feelings on the subject of swingers are just as valid as yours, even if you don't find them PC enough for your tastes.
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Old 06-19-2011, 07:35 PM
 
Location: NYC
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That's not what I said.

I said in my personal experience as well as that of more than a few personal friends, the clientell at le trap tends to be men, mostly older, with hookers. I am not saying swinger women are hookers, I'm saying the hookers myself and others have witnessed are hookers, and I stand by that. I haven't been there in years so it may have changed, or maybe not, regardless if you are saying every swing club in NYC is full of fat old people, you clearly have not visited every swing club in NYC, for I can tell you from personal experience that's not the case.

As someone else pointed out, swingers look just like the rest of society and they run the gamut of age, weight, attractiveness, etc.

On the other hand, if you were expecting real world swingers to look like they do when someone makes a porno and titles it Swingfest Volume 762, you need to learn the difference between fantasy and reality.
Do you really think I watch swinger porn? Come on.

Stop trying to glamorize your lifestyle, it isn't going to make me like it more.
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Old 06-19-2011, 08:00 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Yes, and I DO decline. Because they sicken me.

and so long as we are chatting:
This thread seeks opinions, and I have give mine. Why are your panties all bunched up over it? I am entitled to have my own personal opinion on this subject just as you are entitled to have yours. I haven't tried to argue anyone else's opinion out of them, why are you so concerned with arguing with me over mine? My feelings on the subject of swingers are just as valid as yours, even if you don't find them PC enough for your tastes.
Actually, your panties must be riding up, since you seem to think I was arguing with you. I wasn't. But I was pointing out your errors of logic and fact (which may be a reflection of your biases), though of course you're entitled to your opinions, PC or not.
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Old 06-19-2011, 08:09 PM
 
Location: Northern NH
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Do you really think I watch swinger porn? Come on.

Stop trying to glamorize your lifestyle, it isn't going to make me like it more.

I love the swinger lifestyle and in fact I was at a great party last night with people of all shapes ages and sizes. Some were hot to me and some were not hot. My husband and I love it and that is that
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Old 06-19-2011, 08:39 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Actually, your panties must be riding up, since you seem to think I was arguing with you. I wasn't. But I was pointing out your errors of logic and fact (which may be a reflection of your biases), though of course you're entitled to your opinions, PC or not.
No, you were pointing out what you find to be errors in my personal tastes. I am entitled to my preferences, and you can't guilt trip me into giving a thumbs up to your lifestyle. Frankly I find it weird that you are so insecure about your life, you need to argue with me about my differing opinion. On the flip side: I doubt need your approval about what I do. Stop fighting for mine.
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