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An outgoing girl couldn't hang with me as she would find me boring as hell lol, and I would find her incompatible likewise. When I'm not working, I love to be at home and maybe playing a few games. Take a bike ride. Watch a bit of TV, and call it day. I may go watch the occasional movie, but there honestly isn't much to do around these parts, unlike you like to drink, eat, and shop. As a result, I stay at home mostly.
I just wanted to say that when I was young and in my 20's, I didn't party all the time (in fact I am a late bloomer in those regards) I did have friends and a moderately active social life and I wound up falling in love with my now-husband who is a self proclaimed homebody.
You know being in a relationship or a long term marriage doesn’t necessarily guarantee that you won't be lonely. There are plenty of threads in this forum started by people who are married and lonely. I think it is much more painful to be in a room with another person and still feel all alone. There are many favorite sayings and proverbs dealing with love probably going back 100's if not 1000's of years. "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread" maybe you are the latter.
Thriftlefty, I think when people publish these threads, they're hoping for a good, functional relationship, not a dying one. I'd rather be alone by myself than alone with someone, but I'd rather be incredibly happy with someone than alone by myself.
*sigh* I thought I was happy about being single, but reading about a few people here being in love with someone and wanting to marry them is starting to make me want that too. Dont get me wrong I'm happy for those people, but I just wish I could find someone to love and to love me back like that too.
Does anyone else get that feeling seeing friends, family, and acquaintances getting that while you aren't??
Dont rush it..take this time to get to know yourself..when the time is right it will happen..love is best when its unexpected..its a wonderful surprise.
Enhance your qualitites so you have something to offer in the relationship..love yourself and soon someone will see that and love you too..
Good luck
I always say "if you want the right person, you have to be the right person." You have to know yourself so you'll know what you won't put up with in a guy. If a guy shows you interest, be on your toes because you need to know what's up with that (guys can give you attention for the wrong reason) instead of thinking your fairy tale love story will come true. Other than that, 19 is too young to worry about not having a relationship (even though a good friend of mine got married out of high school but that's a different story) so enjoy life and you'll never know, the right guy will pop in someday.
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you will be fine
Dont get me wrong I'm happy for those people, but I just wish I could find someone to love and to love me back like that too. 
