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Old 06-17-2011, 11:34 AM
 
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i was driving myself nuts trying to make myself, my husband, and my kids safety all a priority with finding a city that fits all of our needs. Now im just going to find a city for my kids and my needs and my husband will just have to adjust. He isnt making us a priority other than when i leave for work and even then he puts my kids to bed only to go outside with our neighbors. Im fed up with this mess. I love my husband dearly but trying to make him happy for this move isnt going to happen because its putting my needs on hold. So now its about me. Ive been working for a year straight saving for this move and im going to make sure my kids and I are happy so that we dont have to move again.
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Old 06-17-2011, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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i was driving myself nuts trying to make myself, my husband, and my kids safety all a priority with finding a city that fits all of our needs. Now im just going to find a city for my kids and my needs and my husband will just have to adjust. He isnt making us a priority other than when i leave for work and even then he puts my kids to bed only to go outside with our neighbors. Im fed up with this mess. I love my husband dearly but trying to make him happy for this move isnt going to happen because its putting my needs on hold. So now its about me. Ive been working for a year straight saving for this move and im going to make sure my kids and I are happy so that we dont have to move again.
I take it that you have discussed this with your husband.

Nevermind...I just saw your other thread... Good Luck though!!
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Old 06-21-2011, 09:36 AM
 
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Good for you....your husband is an adult, and no doubt capable of of creating his own happiness....it's good that you're looking out for your kids....they have no choice in most decisian making, and depend on you to make the right one .
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