i've officially given up..
i was driving myself nuts trying to make myself, my husband, and my kids safety all a priority with finding a city that fits all of our needs. Now im just going to find a city for my kids and my needs and my husband will just have to adjust. He isnt making us a priority other than when i leave for work and even then he puts my kids to bed only to go outside with our neighbors. Im fed up with this mess. I love my husband dearly but trying to make him happy for this move isnt going to happen because its putting my needs on hold. So now its about me. Ive been working for a year straight saving for this move and im going to make sure my kids and I are happy so that we dont have to move again.