Does she seem a little too flaky? (guy, friend, reason)

[FelixTheCat]

Well, maybe I was right. She accepted another date (but time hadn't been set due to her grad school starting today) and she said our date was the best ever, I have the perfect body, her types, ect, sent multiple text and emails yesterday (day off) and now nothing all day. I sent a response email and a "how was your first day" text several hours ago and nothing. Bummer. I used to make excuses for women, but I just got to ride this one out. If she gets back to me she does and if she doesn't she doesn't. Chasing them has never helped.

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by FelixTheCat

Well, maybe I was right. She accepted another date (but time hadn't been set due to her grad school starting today) and she said our date was the best ever, I have the perfect body, her types, ect, sent multiple text and emails yesterday (day off) and now nothing all day. I sent a response email and a "how was your first day" text several hours ago and nothing. Bummer. I used to make excuses for women, but I just got to ride this one out. If she gets back to me she does and if she doesn't she doesn't. Chasing them has never helped.

It's her first day of grad school and you are upset because she hasn't time to text you?

[optiflex]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

It's her first day of grad school and you are upset because she hasn't time to text you?

I was thinking same thing. She's running around like crazy. And texted him SEVERAL times..run! he's the reverse of the available late model hot chick. Why is such a hot chick still available?....ohhhh that's why!

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by optiflex

I was thinking same thing. She's running around like crazy. And texted him SEVERAL times..run! he's the reverse of the available late model hot chick. Why is such a hot chick still available?....ohhhh that's why!

Or it could be a reverse vampire!

They Craaaave the sunlight! And texting there exes!

Run as fast as you can! You need to follow nightfall everywhere or else she will forever stalk you during the day!

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by FelixTheCat

Well, maybe I was right. She accepted another date (but time hadn't been set due to her grad school starting today) and she said our date was the best ever, I have the perfect body, her types, ect, sent multiple text and emails yesterday (day off) and now nothing all day. I sent a response email and a "how was your first day" text several hours ago and nothing. Bummer. I used to make excuses for women, but I just got to ride this one out. If she gets back to me she does and if she doesn't she doesn't. Chasing them has never helped.

Gotta tell you, someone sending me a bunch of texts like that, after just one or two dates...I'm OUTTA there.

[FelixTheCat]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

It's her first day of grad school and you are upset because she hasn't time to text you?

Sure that's an excuse. But she's got an I Phone. She got the text and email 10+ hours ago the instant I sent them. She eats lunch and dinner just like everyone else. I'm just saying she could have spent 10 seconds to reply if she wanted. The point here is she didn't want to. I didn't react to it, but I noticed.

[FelixTheCat]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

Gotta tell you, someone sending me a bunch of texts like that, after just one or two dates...I'm OUTTA there.

I know it's a bit much, but she is 3000 miles away from home feeling homesick and lonely.

[FelixTheCat]

Originally Posted by optiflex

I was thinking same thing. She's running around like crazy. And texted him SEVERAL times..run! he's the reverse of the available late model hot chick. Why is such a hot chick still available?....ohhhh that's why!

huh? are you saying i'm old?

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by FelixTheCat

Sure that's an excuse. But she's got an I Phone. She got the text and email 10+ hours ago the instant I sent them. She eats lunch and dinner just like everyone else. I'm just saying she could have spent 10 seconds to reply if she wanted. The point here is she didn't want to. I didn't react to it, but I noticed.

Ewwwww. After a few dates she better respond to texts within... what? 5 hours? If she has time to eat, she damn well has time to contact some guy she hardly knows?

She. had. her. first. day. at. grad. school.

If you were my friend I would advise you to back down, waayyy down. Honestly you sound a little scary.

Sometimes my day is so busy I can't respond to my SO's texts, it's just one too many calls on my attention. I'm going to marry the guy and his requirements are less of me than you have on a 2nd date girl.

That's not an excuse, it's a reason. And honestly she needs neither.

[Georgianbelle]

She was late. Maybe she is spontaneous and fun. You just met her, and you are worrying about something so minor? Wow, good luck with finding a perfect person.