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View Poll Results: Number of dates till you invite your date over?
1 4 30.77%
2 0 0%
3 3 23.08%
4 3 23.08%
5 0 0%
6 3 23.08%
Voters: 13. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-19-2011, 06:33 PM
 
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Default How many dates till you invite her over?

I know it could be all over the place, but how many dates on average until you invite your date to your place?

I included a poll.
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Old 06-19-2011, 06:34 PM
 
Location: California
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Most of my first dates started in my living room so what can I say? 1-2.
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Old 06-19-2011, 07:04 PM
 
Location: Sugarland
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It depends on how much I like them. On average, I'd say between 3-4.
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Old 06-20-2011, 03:22 AM
 
Location: Hawaii
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I consider being invited over to a man's house as an invitation for sex. If I were a man I wouldn't invite a woman over until I was sure that she was agreeable and felt ready. For me, it would take longer than 6 dates, so I didn't respond to your poll.
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Old 06-20-2011, 03:26 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Wtf? You guys take a girl out before you sleep with them?
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Old 06-20-2011, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Woodinville
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Usually I would invite my date over on the third date. It's not an open invitation for you-know-what. I make sure that my date knows that they can stay the night, but that you-know-what is off the table since it takes me a while to jump into bed with someone. Doesn't mean we can't do other fun things though
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Old 06-20-2011, 10:41 AM
 
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Inviting a girl who you're dating over to your place by saying "Would you like to come over to my place?"

Like a girl on here said "your place" equals "sex" in a woman's mind. So the way she will interpret this is "Do you want to come over and have sex with me?"

This question allows your date to reject you and your advances. It puts her completely in control of the situation and what happens. It shows indecisiveness.

Never use questions and don't ask if she wants to "come over" unless you're sure she wants to sleep with you.
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Old 06-20-2011, 10:43 AM
 
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Usually, when I first meet a woman, I invite them over to my place for drinks before we head to the club. We usually don't make it to the club. This is the way life should work, for everyone.
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Old 06-20-2011, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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How many dates till you invite her over?
To be perfectly honest most of the women I met when I was young who ended up going to my place had never even been on a date with me because I met them at the bar during my years as a rock musician. I did a lot of traveling to play in various places so often "my place" was a motel room. Oh, how I miss those wonderful years!
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Old 06-20-2011, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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To be perfectly honest most of the women I met when I was young who ended up going to my place had never even been on a date with me because I met them at the bar during my years as a rock musician. I did a lot of traveling to play in various places so often "my place" was a motel room. Oh, how I miss those wonderful years!
I can imagine...

Well, get back to the Rock 'n' Roll! I'm sure there are others who miss those years. Get a band going!
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