How come it's so difficult for me to date a white guy?

[k28mas]

Originally Posted by ms85me

I'm an educated black female and I've been wanting to date a white guy for what seems like forever! Not to say I don't like all guys but I just want to try something new. It seems like there is either something wrong with me or maybe there is a different way I should try to approach them. I tired of the same ol stuff and want some new experiences.

Are you hot? Do you have a flat stomach? Are you sexy? Do you speak well?

You will have to approach a white guy, it is doubtful he will approach you.

If you have great hygene and are hot and speak well, you should be able to date a white guy. Oh yeah do things that normally white people do, like snow skiing, hiking, yoga, etc

[calicali01]

Originally Posted by Singlelady10

It doesn't matter. .

Yes it DOES. We are taking about Afro American women specifically, but like a roach, you want to run and hide when people shine the lights on you.

This is why I'm DONE with Afro Amercian women, you GIRLS REFUSE to accept responsibility and hold yourself accountable for anything.

[calicali01]

Originally Posted by k28mas

Oh yeah do things that normally white people do, like snow skiing, hiking, yoga, etc

lol I remember once I took a black girl to a high end beach town and she was so out of her element she became uncomfortable and wanted to go. I was flabbergasted.

[KayAnn246]

Originally Posted by calicali01

Right, because I'm a black man who has made something for himself and won't kiss your arse.

In other words, you have never seen a man like me because you could not attract a man like me, that's why you're single, SINGLELADY10.

Typical, so if I AGREE with a non African, and don't stick up for your sorry self, even if the other person is right, then I'm a Uncle Tom?

You don't even understand what a Uncle Tom really is which is why all you can do is rehash old slave history to make people feel guilty.

This thread is beyond me so I am going to make this my last post.

First, I have listed my accomplishments if you go back and read my prior posts so I don't have to restate to you.

Second, I am ACTUALLY single but actively dating someone who happens to be a white active duty man. But have dated and was married to a BLACK man. My brothers, cousins and uncles are black and they proudly love black women.

Third, just because someone is single isn't a negative thing. Some actually choose to be single instead of disrespecting themselves by jumping person to person because that boosts their self of esteem. You seem to be that type.

So in your opinion, being a black women and single means I would be less of a person THAN you? Actually it is the opposite. You don't represent most men views especially black men.

[calicali01]

Originally Posted by yayoi

So I take this is true of your black female relatives?

No, because when I look at the pictures of the women in my family from back in the day, I saw REAL women.


REAL women look like this:

[calicali01]

Originally Posted by Singlelady10

You don't represent most men views especially black men.

I don't, which is why I'm doing BETTER then the average black man other then the professional athletes and entertainers.

[quenelle]

Originally Posted by calicali01

No, because when I look at the pictures of the women in my family from back in the day, I saw REAL women.


REAL women look like this:

That is a lovely picture of some beautiful women. When was it taken?

[calicali01]

Originally Posted by quenelle

That is a lovely picture of some beautiful women. When was it taken?

Yes it is! The picture was taken in circa 1930.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by calicali01

No, because when I look at the pictures of the women in my family from back in the day, I saw REAL women.


REAL women look like this:

Those REAL women in nice dresses didn't have to work!