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Originally Posted by recuerdeme
So why are some people so reluctant to give compliments?
I was out on a date and the guy just kept looking at me like he had something to say. I was like "what's on your mind?" he would say "nothing" and then look away. But minutes later he would look again. I started to get a little exasperated... he finally said "you're so hot I really like your smile and eyes and... etc" I told him thanks but really why do people hold back? If you want to compliment someone and express that you are 'into' someone else then you should do it... don't be bashful because the moment may pass you by
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I don't do it at work. Outside of work, I don't want women to act as if I want her just because I said something kind. If i do give one, it's usualy to an older women. They tend not to take it the wrong way. under 50, I don't say a word.
Isay all of that because I do give compliments to guys and gals. If a guy is wearing nice sghoes or a nice shirt/tie i have no probalem letting him know.
unfortunaltely I think many of the Modern day guys were not raised in environments where it was normal to give and receive complements.
I have guys look at meand laugh because I gave a complement, it's a eego thing or something.