So he's playing it cool... (dating, guys, attractive, call)
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He's just the total package. Looks, intelligent, funny, stable... etc.
True, nothing wrong with being smitten but I hate feeling like I'm the more smitten of the two.
Yeah it's funny how that works. When a guy acts aloof or uninterested...it just makes him so much more alluring and wants me to get him even more. If the same guy were all over me and chasing me...I'd be bored in an instant. Human nature.
Most people call it playing "hard to get". I think of it as playing "hard to take seriously". Don't y'all get tired of these games???
I hate games and never played into them. However there's a difference between deliberately playing hard to get and just being more cool and relaxed about the whole thing. I would never put up with games...but a guy who isn't so "easy" and throwing himself at me is going to be much more attractive than one who is.
Meanwhile the guys that are "throwing" themselves at me don't interest me at all.
Do we like the chase? Do we like to feel that we're winning someone over? I know I'm not the only one! Now I'm with butterflies in my stomach and ....
Sigh...
Easy. The fact that he's not putting effort into chasing you tells you that he has other options readily available so he must have alot going for him and now you want to chase him.
How do you know the difference between him playing it cool, or him just not that interested??
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