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Old 06-27-2011, 09:20 PM
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Why is it that cougars are attracted to me? I don't mind as long as the cougar is attractive. But it would be nice if someone closer in age to me showed interest in me for a change.

On the rare occasion someone showed interest in me during college, it's been a cougar.

Is there any reason why cougars would be attracted to a young person? Is it something about me?
Post a picture of yourself! Better yet, post a video of yourself talking and doing something you like to do. How can we answer your questions if we don't know you in person?

 
Old 06-27-2011, 09:23 PM
 
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Why do I have hard time visualizing this cougar tale...?
I have my doubts too, he has no clue how to read signals, my bet is NO women are into him, do you know any self respecting woman over 30 (or 40 based on his defintion) would be seen with a guy in girl pants..just sayin
 
Old 06-28-2011, 05:44 AM
 
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Old 06-28-2011, 06:08 AM
 
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I find it a little peculiar that, based on two minor incidents, you think that "cougars" are attracted to you. A 40 year old teacher "looks" at you during a sex education class and afterwards hands out condoms to the students, and some time much later on a 30 year old woman briefly touches your knee.

I think you have absolutely nothing to worry about at all and can rest easy that you're neither cougar nor puma prey.
 
Old 06-28-2011, 09:13 AM
 
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I find it a little peculiar that, based on two minor incidents, you think that "cougars" are attracted to you. A 40 year old teacher "looks" at you during a sex education class and afterwards hands out condoms to the students, and some time much later on a 30 year old woman briefly touches your knee.

I think you have absolutely nothing to worry about at all and can rest easy that you're neither cougar nor puma prey.
The 40-something cougar was not a teacher/professor, she was a student.

Oh, and it wasn't a sex ed class. It was a class where we could give presentations on whatever topic we want, and another student (not the cougar) picked safe sex as her topic. She was the one that handed out the condoms, not the cougar.

Since the cougar wasn't handing out the condoms, why would she make a comment to me about the condoms unless she had a thing for me?
 
Old 06-28-2011, 09:18 AM
 
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The 40-something cougar was not a teacher/professor, she was a student.
that doesnt really change the situation, whether she was a student or teacher is irrelevant to the story. There is a lot of reason's why a woman might stare at a man (one being that she wasn't actually staring at said man but something/someone else in the same region)
 
Old 06-28-2011, 09:21 AM
 
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that doesnt really change the situation, whether she was a student or teacher is irrelevant to the story. There is a lot of reason's why a woman might stare at a man (one being that she wasn't actually staring at said man but something/someone else in the same region)
Read the rest of my post. I edited the post to add details which would explain why it's likely that she had a thing for me.

And believe me, it was obvious that she was staring at me
 
Old 06-28-2011, 09:23 AM
 
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I have my doubts too, he has no clue how to read signals, my bet is NO women are into him, do you know any self respecting woman over 30 (or 40 based on his defintion) would be seen with a guy in girl pants..just sayin
If no women are into me (except possibly these cougars), can you see why I'm bitter?

And I know someone that dresses like me and he had an affair with a cougar
 
Old 06-28-2011, 09:24 AM
 
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Read the rest of my post. I edited the post to add details which would explain why it's likely that she had a thing for me.

And believe me, it was obvious that she was staring at me
Did you ask her out?
 
Old 06-28-2011, 09:25 AM
 
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Read the rest of my post. I edited the post to add details which would explain why it's likely that she had a thing for me.

And believe me, it was obvious that she was staring at me
honestly based on experience, even when something may look 'obvious' it might not be, some women will flirt, use body language etc and you may think they are interested only to find they are not. Other than her coming up to you and telling you she is interested, licking her lips while looking at you etc, its not 100% that she was interested.
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