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View Poll Results: How does the idea of yourself being in a gay relationship affect you ?
It repulses me 61 54.46%
It doesn't affect me one way or another 32 28.57%
It kind of turns me on a little 19 16.96%
Voters: 112. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-29-2011, 07:14 PM
 
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I am completely 100% straight. I am attracted to women, not to men.

I was accused in a now locked thread of "overcompensating" for my "gayness" by saying that I am repulsed by the idea of being in a relationship with a man.

But I disagree. I know that I am honestly repulsed by the idea of myself being in a relationship with another man. I don't think about gay men (not me) being in a relationship with each other. It doesn't bother me one way or another, because I don't think about it. Now, I'm not watching brokeback mountain either because I don't want to see gay sex or gay kissing or whatnot. It does kind of gross me out a little bit. I don't care if they do it, but I don't want to see it.

But I don't understand how my being repulsed by the idea of myself being in a gay relationship is over-compensating for anything. It is honestly what I feel.

I wonder what other straight men (not bi-sexual men, not gay men) think of the idea of themselves being in a gay relationship.

 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:17 PM
 
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With the right guy, sure........
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:23 PM
 
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Never gave it much thought.

[if you're straight, why would you?]
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:27 PM
 
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Never gave it much thought.

[if you're straight, why would you?]
Don't know. But plenty of straight men have gay relationships most don't come out and admit it.
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:33 PM
 
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Don't know. But plenty of straight men have gay relationships most don't come out and admit it.
If a straight man is in a gay relationship can he really say he's straight?

 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:37 PM
 
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If a straight man is in a gay relationship can he really say he's straight?

Yes. Human's are sexual creatures and they experiment but many of those experimentation's they keep secret.
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:38 PM
 
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Not wired that way, doesn't effect me at all. Nor does it bother me if someone else is gay though. I tend to concern my thoughts positive to my world, and don't worry what someone else does, its none of my business.
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:41 PM
 
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Yes. Human's are sexual creatures and they experiment but many of those experimentation's they keep secret.
Well, okay...

[splashing around in the water doesn't make one a fish]
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:45 PM
 
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I have mostly been straight, but (thank lord for anonimity), I did have a relationship with another guy about 7 years ago. I was 22, he was 30 and from Denmark. We started out as just good friends, but for some odd reason, sparks started to fly and we became involved. This is the only ever time I've been with and truly lusted for another man. It was actually the most amazing relationship I've had, although cut short, as he had to return to Denmark and we drifted out of touch. Aside from that, I generally go for women
 
Old 06-29-2011, 07:47 PM
 
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I am completely 100% straight. I am attracted to women, not to men.

I was accused in a now locked thread of "overcompensating" for my "gayness" by saying that I am repulsed by the idea of being in a relationship with a man.

But I disagree. I know that I am honestly repulsed by the idea of myself being in a relationship with another man. I don't think about gay men (not me) being in a relationship with each other. It doesn't bother me one way or another, because I don't think about it. Now, I'm not watching brokeback mountain either because I don't want to see gay sex or gay kissing or whatnot. It does kind of gross me out a little bit. I don't care if they do it, but I don't want to see it.

But I don't understand how my being repulsed by the idea of myself being in a gay relationship is over-compensating for anything. It is honestly what I feel.

I wonder what other straight men (not bi-sexual men, not gay men) think of the idea of themselves being in a gay relationship.
The thing is, straight men don't think about this at all. Why do you?
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