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Old 07-03-2011, 08:59 AM
 
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A man can't start a thread to vent his frustrations on the matter? Tell that to women who might have experienced the same thing from other women.

I'm not jealous of other men, boy. I just can't stand guys who shame their own.
Oh, you can start a thread if you wish alright. I just said that I wouldn't have. The best advice to NOT get shamed is to outdo or equal the one who you feel inferior or threatened by. Stop worrying about what he is doing. Would I have said something like that to you? Hell no! Can I see why other men are bothered by it? Not really. It was no big deal. For what it's worth, that guy must have seen or sensed something about you that he felt you weren't holding your own. I've never had someone tell me something like that before. Then again, I project a don't F with me kind of vibe.
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Old 07-03-2011, 01:50 PM
 
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White Knight syndrome, it's one hell of a disease!
Yep. They are douchebags through and through. Horrible people! I've had a run in with my share and I must admit they make my temper flare.
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:16 PM
 
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Yep. They are douchebags through and through. Horrible people! I've had a run in with my share and I must admit they make my temper flare.
White Knight Syndrome is a hilarious term coined by toolbags who don't pack the gear. Most men have better things to worry about. Be all you can be. Just be someone ELSE!
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:24 PM
 
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IDK, "white knighting" is much worse on the internet than it is in real life- more massive tools do it online.

Anyways.. in my opinion, some men feel the need to shame other men in front of other women because they feel the need to be better. One-upmanship and all that.
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:27 PM
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from my perspective many of these guys are mama's boys. They didn't grow up around a father or a strong male influence slapping them around when they get out of line so they don't know how to show other men respect.
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:51 PM
 
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But then a guy with his woman comes over and asks me "Aye man, why ain't you helping her out? Don't let her do all the work." I wanted to curse him out like and say "She didn't need my help at the moment. So mind your own business!"
Yea and if you had said that instead of keeping silent you wouldn't feel the need to vent now. Next time maybe you should speak your mind like a man and save yourself embarrassment.
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:54 PM
 
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Yea and if you had said that instead of keeping silent you wouldn't feel the need to vent now. Next time maybe you should speak your mind like a man and save yourself embarrassment.
That's what I'm talking about. Wimps talk about it later. "Boy I outta...woulda...shouda...coulda!" Hell dude, I already did it!
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:55 PM
 
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Lots of busybodies out there. Most of the time I shrug it off but once in a while one get's to me.

Not much you can do man.
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Old 07-03-2011, 02:57 PM
 
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The rants about kicking someones ass in this thread are funny too! Really? You'd "plow" some dude for that>? You are insecure then.
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Old 07-03-2011, 03:08 PM
 
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It's called c*&k blocking and guys will do it for the simple fact that they are jealous. Even some married guys will do it if they think you have a chance with a woman that is better looking than their wife.
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