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Old 07-02-2011, 07:49 PM
 
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If she was out of my league she wouldn't have been seen with me in public 3 times.
people who are not superficial give people the chance to see what they are like underneath their image. people go out with others for all kinds of reasons. heck you could be her "practice" date.

being out of someone's league could also mean you are not on the same 'wave" length mentally, or have enough common interests. these things you can't figure out on looks alone. you could very well find someone attractive, fun and all you hope for only to go out with them for a few months and find out they are a terrible bore or worse.

if you truly want a relationship you should give all women an equal chance even the ones you think may not meet your standard of beauty. beauty is only skin deep

 
Old 07-02-2011, 07:51 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Maybe you shouldn't try to juggle women. It sounds like dating overload. Stop the practice dates. Oh by the way, congrats on breaking your "3rd date cherry!" Relax for now and look forward to your 4th date. I'm proud of you.

She suggested going to see a movie at the waterfront for our next date.
 
Old 07-02-2011, 07:54 PM
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people who are not superficial give people the chance to see what they are like underneath their image. people go out with others for all kinds of reasons. heck you could be her "practice" date.

being out of someone's league could also mean you are not on the same 'wave" length mentally, or have enough common interests. these things you can't figure out on looks alone. you could very well find someone attractive, fun and all you hope for only to go out with them for a few months and find out they are a terrible bore or worse.

if you truly want a relationship you should give all women an equal chance even the ones you think may not meet your standard of beauty. beauty is only skin deep

Looks attracts and personality keeps
 
Old 07-02-2011, 07:55 PM
 
Location: tampa bay
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Wait,this poster goes on practice dates with unattrative women,so he can be less nervous dating a woman he considers attractive?!And he has never gotten to a third date until now?So maybe this girl isn't as attractive as he thinks since he's getting a 4th date??
 
Old 07-02-2011, 07:58 PM
 
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Looks attracts and personality keeps
So if you never got past a 3rd date (until now)what does that say about your own personality
 
Old 07-02-2011, 07:58 PM
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Wait,this poster goes on practice dates with unattrative women,so he can be less nervous dating a woman he considers attractive?!And he has never gotten to a third date until now?So maybe this girl isn't as attractive as he thinks since he's getting a 4th date??
She is attractive because if not I wouldn't be walking around with her in highly populated areas of the city where you see several attractive women.
 
Old 07-02-2011, 08:00 PM
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So if you never got past a 3rd date (until now)what does that say about your own personality
I had some bad qualities over the years

selfish
spoiled
short-tempered
picky
 
Old 07-02-2011, 08:06 PM
 
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She is attractive because if not I wouldn't be walking around with her in highly populated areas of the city where you see several attractive women.
But given the fact that past experinces predicts future behavior maybe she really is not as attractive as you think.How do you know when you walk around with her people aren't thinking to themselves "Wow look at that guy walking around with that unattractive woman"?
 
Old 07-02-2011, 08:10 PM
 
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She suggested going to see a movie at the waterfront for our next date.
I agree with zonababe. Don't try to juggle women. Drop the "librarian" and stick with the one who likes you.

She's noticed that you are nervous, and she hasn't dumped you on account of that.
 
Old 07-02-2011, 08:12 PM
 
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I had some bad qualities over the years

selfish
spoiled
short-tempered
picky

are you no longer these things? maybe this is why attractive or even unattractive girls won't date you after the 3rd date. as Irish said how do you know this girl is hot? hotness is in the eye of the beholder. are you hot enough to actually get a hot babe? if you are so nervous no woman with any confidence would want to hang with you for too long. you need to make an adjustment of some kind as something isn't working for you
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