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Old 07-02-2011, 09:17 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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But given the fact that past experinces predicts future behavior maybe she really is not as attractive as you think.How do you know when you walk around with her people aren't thinking to themselves "Wow look at that guy walking around with that unattractive woman"?
No I don't think so since I was approached by a group of women for directions on how to get to a certain place.

 
Old 07-02-2011, 09:19 PM
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Location: tampa bay
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No I don't think so since I was approached by a group of women for directions on how to get to a certain place.
But did any guys approach your date and ask for directions?
 
Old 07-02-2011, 09:25 PM
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But did any guys approach your date and ask for directions?
No because I'm 6 foot 6 and weigh 276
 
Old 07-02-2011, 09:25 PM
 
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are you no longer these things? maybe this is why attractive or even unattractive girls won't date you after the 3rd date. as Irish said how do you know this girl is hot? hotness is in the eye of the beholder. are you hot enough to actually get a hot babe? if you are so nervous no woman with any confidence would want to hang with you for too long. you need to make an adjustment of some kind as something isn't working for you
If she's hot to him, what difference does it make if she's hot to anyone else ?

As he gets to know this girl better, he'll become less nervous around her.
 
Old 07-02-2011, 09:29 PM
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No because I'm 6 foot 6 and weigh 276
So you scare off men and attractive women!
 
Old 07-02-2011, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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If meds can give someone back their life they are a godsend.
Yes. When they're a last resort for a REAL physical illness, which is obviously not the case here.

Yours are Satan-sent. They don't give lives away; they take lives away. They're sent to cause people actual physical illnesses in order to surrender their lives and money to the greedy hands of the medical mafia for the rest of their existence, when the answer to TVSG's problem is a little more will power, a little less stubbornness, and a little more listening to what people say. And even if he remains socially inept and alone, I'd rather see him alone and healthy as opposed to alone and a physical wreck.
 
Old 07-02-2011, 10:22 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Yes. When they're a last resort for a REAL physical illness, which is obviously not the case here.

Yours are Satan-sent. They don't give lives away; they take lives away. They're sent to cause people actual physical illnesses in order to surrender their lives and money to the greedy hands of the medical mafia for the rest of their existence, when the answer to TVSG's problem is a little more will power, a little less stubbornness, and a little more listening to what people say. And even if he remains socially inept and alone, I'd rather see him alone and healthy as opposed to alone and a physical wreck.

You are like a broken record on this subject, and we know we are never going to agree. Mental illness is a real thing - you don't just have to have a physical ailment to be ill.

I have seen too many people with real mental issues go on to lead MUCH happier, healthier lives because of the medications they've been prescribed. In some cases their lives were not just improved, but actually saved.

You are entitled to your opinions, which as I recall are not based on any personal experience, but still should be respected. I am entitled to mine.

Let's just continue to agree to disagree
 
Old 07-02-2011, 10:26 PM
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Yes. When they're a last resort for a REAL physical illness, which is obviously not the case here.

Yours are Satan-sent. They don't give lives away; they take lives away. They're sent to cause people actual physical illnesses in order to surrender their lives and money to the greedy hands of the medical mafia for the rest of their existence, when the answer to TVSG's problem is a little more will power, a little less stubbornness, and a little more listening to what people say. And even if he remains socially inept and alone, I'd rather see him alone and healthy as opposed to alone and a physical wreck.
I don't think medication is for this guy as much behavioral therapy is needed.He needs to get out of his head and not see trivial occurences as monumental ones!
 
Old 07-02-2011, 11:26 PM
 
Location: Orlando
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Simple ..stop "going on dates"... go out with a friend with no expectations except to share some time, experiences and have a good time. Stop the mind(copulating) don't make it anything bigger than going out with a friend . that may be a pretty woman.
 
Old 07-02-2011, 11:38 PM
 
Location: in here, out there
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How can I stop these aniexty attacks?
Try Klonopin.
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