My dating experiences (internet, wear, short, women)

[jasper12]

sense of self importance, and over inflated ego?

[chielgirl]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

i'm funny and have a large...........

Like I said, other than your imagination.

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

was laid off in july

And as I asked, were more people laid off, or was it a way to get rid of you? After all, you used to brag about coming in hours after everyone else.

[chielgirl]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

It wasn't virgode it was chielgirl. She said she expects a guy at my age to have steady work

Like I'd be interested in a loser?
I have a very nice career and live on another continent.
Gold digger.... this is too funny.

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

i'm funny and have a large...........

The only person who seems to think you're funny (as in "funny ha-ha" and not, "funny peculiar") would seem to be you.

Originally Posted by jasper12

sense of self importance, and over inflated ego?

It goes without saying that this should be prefaced by, "Quite misguided ..."

Anyway, Grasshopper, getting back to your original post which was the new problem you developed of "dating anxiety attacks" did you follow any of the advice which you were given in response to your query?

I would imagine that now you are again employed (and once you can get used to all the current dilemmas involved in finding the right train to take to you to your new assignment) you'll be back on the never-ending dating hunt with renewed vigor so a resolution to the anxiety problem will be rather important. Now that the winter months are rapidly approaching in your neck of the woods it'll become more difficult to blame anxiety-induced profuse perspiration on summer heat while the accompanying shaking could indicate to a new date that you have drug withdrawal problems. Best to get this nipped in the bud right away.

[SummerFall]

Originally Posted by STT Resident

Poster virgode is a gold-digger? And what appeal would you have for a gold-digger?

Hahahahahaha It's all the loot he gets from the unemployment checks! Makes women see $$$ !!!
Gee..to be 65 and practically dead (if ya listen to TVSports) you are quite sharp, eh? It's good to see you are fighting off that dementia and whatnot!

[SummerFall]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

well materialistic is what I mean.

Are you serious??? Wanting someone to have a JOB means you are materialistic?? What the hell has society turned into??

I cant even make sense of that....

[SummerFall]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

So if he lost his job as a career counselor he should take a job frying burgers instead of looking for a career that was similar to his previous post? And what would you be doing as his woman? Monitoring his every move while he is unemployed so you can have an excuse to cheat on him or leave him???

TV..seriously. Stop dating. STOP FREAKING DATING. The world isnt going to come to an end. Get your life back together. Get yourself another job. Get settled again. Because, right now, i dont think you need to be worrying about dating. You need to get your own life together again before you try to blend it with someone else's.

Plus, i feel the fact you are out of work makes you hypersensitive. It shows here..espescially by calling someone 'materialistic' simply because a poster said she would like someone to be working.

You just need to step back and leave women alone for a while. My opinion, of course. But get a job, a car..or get your car working..or whatever you gotta do..get yourself straight. THEN worry about dating.
In the meantime, hang out with friends or something, or get a hobby, or volunteer at the animal shelter or something.

[STT Resident]

Originally Posted by SummerFall

Hahahahahaha It's all the loot he gets from the unemployment checks! Makes women see $$$ !!!
Gee..to be 65 and practically dead (if ya listen to TVSports) you are quite sharp, eh? It's good to see you are fighting off that dementia and whatnot!

Oh dear me. I fortunately don't have to "fight off" dementia or Alzheimer's which is probably attributable to good genes ...

[quote=SummerFall;20832321]TV..seriously. Stop dating. STOP FREAKING DATING. The world isnt going to come to an end. Get your life back together. Get yourself another job. Get settled again. Because, right now, i dont think you need to be worrying about dating. You need to get your own life together again before you try to blend it with someone else's.

The same old same old. But he'll not listen.

[WestPhillyDude75]

Originally Posted by SummerFall

Are you serious??? Wanting someone to have a JOB means you are materialistic?? What the hell has society turned into??

I cant even make sense of that....

But I'm not getting call backs for interviews what am I supposed to do????

[SummerFall]

[quote=TVandSportsGuy;20832704]But I'm not getting call backs for interviews what am I supposed to do????[/quote]


The above is NOT what i'm talking about. You obviously cannot help if employers are not calling you. You just have to hang in there.

What im talking about is the fact that you called someone materialistic because that person would prefer dating prospects to have jobs. TV..EVERYONE will probably want their dating prosects to have a job. That is just a standard, basic thing. That does not make them 'materialistic'. You need money to buy food, clothes, pay bills, house upkeep, car repairs, things for kids if you have them, small emergencies that may come up, etc.

Now, you got laid off, but most folks can understand that. Like I said, I was laid off too once. But, your unfortunate position right now still doesnt change the fact that people would prefer that a dating prospect be gainfully employed. Thats just life, TVsports. It's not materialistic. It's survival. If you are sensitive to that, then maybe you should just chill with the dating scene for a while. That's why i said that.

Get yourself together first.