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I guess you don't realize that everyone is different and there is no cookie-cutter way to "approach guys." Why don't you try being yourself and see what happens.
Um ... if he thinks she's hot, I don't think it's going to take him that long to remember that. Guys notice attractive women right away. It doesn't take 6 hours and "Heath Ledger" for him to notice her. Maybe when she orders a fish, she could make some kind of inane comment like, "it must be tough to work so hard in this weather " and then when he looks up at her, give him her best smile. Guys like flirty comments. They like flirty compliments.
You make it sound like we guys are incapable of "multitasking" our brains. We aren't dumb cavemen, unless we're in Geico commercials.
It wasn't my intention to make men sound like cavemen. I was going for the T-rex mentality.
I guess you don't realize that everyone is different and there is no cookie-cutter way to "approach guys." Why don't you try being yourself and see what happens.
This is true!
Find something to compliment him on. What guy doesn't like to be complemented? Then, give him your sexiest, most mysterious look(for only a few seconds). That will leave him breathless and wanting more(hopefully!).
And approach the guy alone. Get his attention, with eye contact and a nice smile. If this doesn't work, offer him a hershey bar. Chocolate.
I guess you don't realize that everyone is different and there is no cookie-cutter way to "approach guys." Why don't you try being yourself and see what happens.
It's not my inner self that i am worried about I just don't want to come of as a creep and wanted a more subtle way to ask him out
Just approach & talk to him. The most he can do is ignore you or turn you down. Women do it to men all the time as im sure you have as well.
And if he turns you down, please don't assume he is gay. He could just be busy, cleaning fish.
Don't be surprised if 2 weeks later a guy out of the blue shows up and introducing himself as the fish cleaner. It takes them a long time to realize things.
Find something to compliment him on. What guy doesn't like to be complemented? Then, give him your sexiest, most mysterious look(for only a few seconds). That will leave him breathless and wanting more(hopefully!).
And approach the guy alone. Get his attention, with eye contact and a nice smile. If this doesn't work, offer him a hershey bar. Chocolate.
Did that already, I can't approach him because like I said he is always busy taking orders or cleaning fish and can get fired if he tried to approach me, I would have to wait until his shift is over to talk to him which I don't know when that is.....
It's not my inner self that i am worried about I just don't want to come of as a creep and wanted a more subtle way to ask him out
Just complement him while ordering a fish from him. Say "Wow ! You're working hard. Must be tough in this heat ! " And then smile.
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, I can't approach him because like I said he is always busy taking orders or cleaning fish and can get fired if he tried to approach me, I would have to wait until his shift is over to talk to him which I don't know when that is.....
