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Old 07-02-2011, 10:18 PM
 
Location: FL
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and if he turns you down, please don't assume he is gay. he could just be busy, cleaning fish.

Don't be surprised if 2 weeks later a guy out of the blue shows up and introducing himself as the fish cleaner. it takes them a long time to realize things.
lmao
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:18 PM
 
Location: Looks like I'm getting out "Valley On The Sun" Arizona
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Just sat hi, be yourself.
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:19 PM
 
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Did that already, I can't approach him because like I said he is always busy taking orders or cleaning fish and can get fired if he tried to approach me, I would have to wait until his shift is over to talk to him which I don't know when that is.....
Verbalization of some sort would be good. He's got to hear your voice. He may be too busy to notice you if you just stare at him silently. But do be sure to smile at him.
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:19 PM
 
Location: FL
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He cleans fish all day? I'd look kind of stand offish too. Besides looks, why do you like this guy?
Yea he looks like he really doesn't want to be there and I just think he is beautiful
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:21 PM
 
Location: Orlando
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Women shouldn't approach men.
Horse Hockey!

If you come from the time of the Raptors... maybe a good club will do.

For the current time, be happy, and talk to him. he will respond. it could be he is spoken for so ya never know what may come. but nothing ventured,nothing gained.

Go for the Grand Gesture.
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:23 PM
 
Location: FL
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It's true. So are you going to go talk to him ?
Yes definitely next time I go
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:40 PM
 
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So I was at the farmers market today and saw the most beautiful man ever, he is so gorgeous! I would like to talk to him but don't want to come off desperate/creepy/stalkerish? How should I approach him? btw he works there so I can see him anytime.
Seriously? Lot's of eye contact and flirting with him. Unless he is a re-knob, he will take the hint. Start talking to him about things that interest him. If he owns a nice ride, ask him about it. What are his hobbies and when does he do them. Last and most important. Say....."can I call you?" Then DO IT!
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:43 PM
 
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Seriously? Lot's of eye contact and flirting with him. Unless he is a re-knob, he will take the hint. Start talking to him about things that interest him. If he owns a nice ride, ask him about it. What are his hobbies and when does he do them. Last and most important. Say....."can I call you?" Then DO IT!

The bolded part described half the men out there.
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Old 07-02-2011, 10:52 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Why not just go and slip him your phone number? Wink at him when you do it. I don't care how caveman dumb he is, he will pick up on that sign of interest, and it's not like you can stand and talk to him while he's working unless you can think of some good questions to ask about fish.
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Old 07-02-2011, 11:00 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Why not just go and slip him your phone number? Wink at him when you do it. I don't care how caveman dumb he is, he will pick up on that sign of interest, and it's not like you can stand and talk to him while he's working unless you can think of some good questions to ask about fish.
I've been trying to rep you tonight.....I guess I gotta spread the love.
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