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Old 07-04-2011, 07:20 PM
 
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You should be her friend anyway to get to her g/f's. Network is the key. You can always cut the contact with her once you accomplish your goals.

And you think she doesn't talk to them about you?
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:21 PM
 
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Yes. Men don't want to be friends with women they find attractive.
Why not? I am sure she can introduce you to her friends.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:22 PM
 
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I'm fairly certain that they were rejected plenty of times before they became popular.
Not every women finds Pitt or Clooney attractive.

Just because some guy is a model does not mean he will be attractive to all women.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:23 PM
 
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Not every women finds Pitt or Clooney attractive.

Just because some guy is a model does not mean he will be attractive to all women.
but both of there popularity and money will attract women by themselves. The chance to be in the spotlight will draw many women to them regardless if they find him attractive or not.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:23 PM
 
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Young girls like to be surrounded by guys and flirt with them whether they like them or not. They crave the attention and having these puppies around makes them popular in the eyes of those they're really interested in.
So why flirt if they are not interested in the guy?
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:23 PM
 
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Why not? I am sure she can introduce you to her friends.

If a girl doesn't want you, rest assured her friends will know. They won't be going out with you either.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:25 PM
 
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If a girl doesn't want you, rest assured her friends will know. They won't be going out with you either.
Group think and thinking by cliche is the name of the game for modern day females.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:26 PM
 
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So why flirt if they are not interested in the guy?
young women will crave attention if they know they can get it, boss. That's why they will flirt with a bunch of men and get them to follow her around.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:28 PM
 
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young women will crave attention if they know they can get it, boss. That's why they will flirt with a bunch of men and get them to follow her around.

Yep. Exactly why a girl did that to me at my last job, even though she had a boyfriend. Luckily for me, I overheard others mention her boyfriend and I made sure not to give her any attention.
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Old 07-04-2011, 07:31 PM
 
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As a male who's been there, done that, you're absolutely right! There's no point to it because you get NOTHING in return
I'm against crowning people with "victim" status when they're in a situation entirely of their own making. If you're not getting what you want out of the friendship, don't be in it. Simple as that. Don't hang around like a puppy dog begging for favors if you're really only doing it because you want her to return your romantic designs.

And no, I find the person trying to keep you on the hook no more in the right. Still, that doesn't take away your free will.
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