The girl i like says i scare her, what to do? Help needed! (dating, boyfriend)
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So im gonna try and make this not too complicated.
Back in May this girl i liked starting dating this guy. I told her i liked her a couple of days later.
In the middle of june her BF was gone for a couple of days so she came over to hang out with me. my friends were telling me that she was liking me alot to the point where she tried to break up with her boyfriend cuz of his drug problems, i asked her if she was breaking up with him cuz of his drug problems or if it was other reasons and if i was the other reasons and she said other reasons, the way we were talking to eachother it seemed like we were going to be with eachother in a couple of days and she thought the same but he came back and she said she realises how much she misses him and i will have to wait to be with her.
Like a week later i was talking to her all day and i told her i miss her and she said "awwwww i miss you too". She was teling me she had stuff to say to me but she couldnt tell me because she didnt want to feel guilty about it while she with her BF, i convinced her to come over and i tried to get her to tell me what she wanted to say by having her pretend that her BF is not a factor and she said its kinda hard when she is talking to him, she said she tried to break up with him again cuz of his drugs again. Later on in the night this other girl saw me and her together and told the girl i like BF that she was cheating on him with me. The girl i like told me later that she thinks it would be a good idea if we didnt see eachother until they break up.
Maybe a week ago i was talking to her and i was joking around with her by saying im tired im gonna take some pills and vodka and that made her upset and i apologised to her like 5 times and i asked for her forgiveness and she said i was fine and i knew right then that it wasnt fine. I told her i understand if she dont want to talk to me for awhile and she said ok so i didnt talk to her for a couple of days.
Just yesterday i was talking to her and i asked if she wanted to go to town with me and she said that she cant, then i asked her what she would do if i came over and she said she would freak out and i asked why? do i scare you or something? and she said yes. When i asked why she wouldnt tell me and i havent talked to her since.
Also she told me that we will be together eventually and that if she didnt want to go out with me then she would of told me to fvck off by now and she said that to my face.
But right now i dont know what to do. Should i stop talking to her until she talks to me? should i talk to her tomorrow or in a couple of days?
I need some good advice on what to do.
Just now i seen her face book status and she said loving me some of the guy she is datings name. oh man that made me feel really bad and pissed.
I miss her and would like to see her and talk to her again, how can i get her to see me?
Forget about her. She is being dishonest with you, with her boyfriend, and maybe with herself. She is involved and not available. That is good news for you.
Forget about her. She is being dishonest with you, with her boyfriend, and maybe with herself. She is involved and not available. That is good news for you.
I dont think she originally was flaking out, the problem is the pills and vodka. What normal woman wants involved with someone threatening suicide even jokingly?
I dont think she originally was flaking out, the problem is the pills and vodka. What normal woman wants involved with someone threatening suicide even jokingly?
She dodged a bullet IMO.
No kidding. Sounds like a big drama scene all the way around. Move on!
I dont think she originally was flaking out, the problem is the pills and vodka. What normal woman wants involved with someone threatening suicide even jokingly?
You have no respect for relationships. You waited until she had just started dating someone else to announce you had feelings for her. Instead of slapping you and telling you to take a hike, she continued talking to you. She thinks it's funny to string you along to make her feel good. You think it's funny to joke about killing yourself and neither of you have any respect for commitments.
So, my advice would be to never talk to this girl again, get therapy to figure out why you go for unavailable girls and straighten out your life.
I hope you did NOT get emotionally attatched to this girl. I take back what I said about her elevator not going all the way up. I agree with h886's post. She IS stringing you along, and probably laughing about it. For future reference don't wait until a girl is with someone to tell her how you feel, and if you do like someone and find out they're unavailable then back away
I think you should avoid any romantic entanglements until you have aged into a demographic where people act like sentient beings.
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