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Old 07-07-2011, 03:16 PM
 
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A few years ago, for fun, I took my wife for a date but gave her no specifics. I took her to a cheap motel, tied her to the bed posts (well, I suppose they were bed posts) and had a good time (the BOTH os uf did- trust me). It was different and we laughed about it all.

Without getting graphic, any one else do something out of the norm to spice up the relationship? Now, to be sure, my marriage is great and my wife is better to me that I could have hoped for (it's a true blessing to be loved- I am very fortunate) but even good marriages can get better.

Just curious.
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Old 07-07-2011, 03:45 PM
 
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Yup...gotta keep it from going stale!

We took our boat out. Kids were at school so we had the day to ourselves.

I bought a bikini and surprised him with it (now I would NEVER wear one at a public pool...I don't have the body for that, but it was just he and I).

It was nice, the lake was private except for a handful of retired fishermen who minded their business and were far enough away not to get an eyefull.

I wasn't sporting that swimsuit for very long
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Old 07-07-2011, 04:02 PM
 
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Yup...gotta keep it from going stale!

We took our boat out. Kids were at school so we had the day to ourselves.

I bought a bikini and surprised him with it (now I would NEVER wear one at a public pool...I don't have the body for that, but it was just he and I).

It was nice, the lake was private except for a handful of retired fishermen who minded their business and were far enough away not to get an eyefull.

I wasn't sporting that swimsuit for very long
Having fun on a boat rocking in the water sounds like a lot of fun.
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Old 07-07-2011, 04:14 PM
 
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How about not going into any detail about any of my sexcapades.
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Old 07-08-2011, 03:49 AM
 
Location: US
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None of my adventures are pg13 enough...
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Old 07-08-2011, 09:56 PM
 
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Oh Yeh!!!!....it was naughty but nice.
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Old 07-09-2011, 12:41 AM
 
Location: Portlandia "burbs"
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I think one of the biggest mistakes that too many married couples do (if not most), is that they stop "dating" each other once children enter the picture.

I never believed in the theory that parents have to take their kids everywhere and include them in everything. Instead, I always told my daughter that sometimes we do things together as a family, other times she'll do things with just one of us, and other times we do things without her. And, no, I never felt guilty about it.

Heck, yes, things can go stale in a hurry if couples don't reserve special focus on each other.
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Old 07-09-2011, 04:46 PM
 
Location: somewhere in the woods
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my wife chartered a jet for 1 day ($1200) just so we could join the mile high+ club, the charter knew what she had planned and i can say it was fun but a bit uncomfortable.
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Old 07-09-2011, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Houston, Texas
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my wife chartered a jet for 1 day ($1200) just so we could join the mile high+ club, the charter knew what she had planned and i can say it was fun but a bit uncomfortable.
Wow!!!!!!! $1200 to get laid? And here I thought we were in an economic depression. For $1200 I could have Carry Underwood for a night and she would even sing my favorite song to me.
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Old 07-09-2011, 05:08 PM
 
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Sex in a public place. Anything you want, life is limitless.
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