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Old 07-09-2011, 05:38 PM
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I have met a really nice lady in NYC and we been dateing now for over 8 month's now and here is something that i notice when her friends asked her about me when we had went to a wedding of someone she knew and it was alot of single women there compared to the single men ..

I stood out compared to most of the guys there in there really nice suit ..My best suit was not even close to some of the hand made tailored suit's some of the guys where wearing along with the cost of some of the jewelry that some of the lady's wearing at the wedding ..

They asked her what does she see in me when i'm so clearly not in her range of education & money & class and other things in alot of areas i will never be on the level with her ..She told one person this statement in many areas of our relationship ..

i asked her about what her and the one lady was taking about at the table when i came up from getting them drinks and she sent back on another run to get them something else at the bar..She was telling me this on the way home to the city in the car we had rented for the night to up the place where the wedding was takeing place then drive back down in the morning ..

.i make her laugh alot about liveing in the city of Nyc because of beening a outsider who lives there with some of the comment's i have made about thing's i have seen or watched happen around us at the time ..I maker her feel good about her age and her looks ..I open her door and i help with her coat .. i act like a gentlemen towards her & other women that i'm around .. i make her laugh about life and how we deal with it everyday & i can cook and i love to read alot ..She was telling the lady there are many layer's to me that people do not see in me in standing there ..

For all you see is a really big & scarey looking guy in a suit with a shaved head and has a look like the local Goomba standing there looking to find the guy who's owns them money ..But to me he the one person i know that there is a multi layered person who is fun and love's life and like t have fun in one life

She also told the lady dateing outside your socalled social class does wondering for your view on life and it does help you grasp how fun life can be outside the normal bounds of what you think is your socalled world and social standing in it ..
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Old 07-09-2011, 05:51 PM
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Default gotta give u credit

and lots of it for being in a crowd that you might otherwise be uncomfortable with. i myself would either not want to go to that function or make sarcastic Archie Bunker-like comments (not racial but comments indicating bitterness) to myself or my SO while I was there
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Old 07-11-2011, 02:35 PM
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FYI, that's "dating" and "living". Always drop the "e" before you add "ing".
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