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My husband's mother was killed by a drunk driver when he was 38 and a cop came to his work to inform him.
Believe me, he was not in the mood for sex for quite a while. And I would think any man wanting to have sex on the heels of being told this news would not be someone I would want to be married to.
It's just asinine to think all men are horny 24/7. Sure, if you're under 30, maybe so. Try being older than that and having kids, a mortgage, job stress, deaths in the family or myriad other things. It's called "real life," folks.
All 3 of them said that women are taught that men want sex all the time at a early age. So if they came across a guy who didn't want all the time they would think he is cheating
One woman told me that it's clear I wasn't into girls growing up since I tend to put sports and TV above sex.
lol I agree. If a man does not want to um...then I believe something is definitely wrong. Also, I can't speak for all women, but I've never requested sex in a relationship. So maybe it "seems" like the man always wants sex as a result? BUt honestly if I felt the urge, and he said no...I would think something was wrong. Possibly cheating or maybe something health-related.
I'll say this: If I'm dating a man and he hasn't made a move by the 6th date or so, I'll begin to think something is amiss... a health problem, a lack of attraction, or something.
If there's no kissing or any indication of physical desire by that point, I'd probably start to lose interest in him.
lol I agree. If a man does not want to um...then I believe something is definitely wrong. Also, I can't speak for all women, but I've never requested sex in a relationship. So maybe it "seems" like the man always wants sex as a result? BUt honestly if I felt the urge, and he said no...I would think something was wrong. Possibly cheating or maybe something health-related.
I've never been turned down. Of course, it's unlikely that I'd initiate sex if my partner was ill or if he'd experienced a death in the family. But if we were both relaxed and enjoying each other's company and I got a "No thanks", I'd be really surprised.
I was having a discussion with female friends about that it's being normal that a guy to not be in the mood for sex. These women told me that even if a guy is sick, laid off, sad, they would still want sex. So let me get this straight, a man is never ever allowed to turn down sex when he is in a relationship?????? Maybe he wants to talk about something that's on his mind. I know it's more men out there who doesn't need sex all the time besides me right?
Ladies if a man turns down sex , i'm assuming the offer is coming from his wife , just turn up the heat on him and if he still don't want it....-just take a rain check and try again on a sunny day.
I'll say this: If I'm dating a man and he hasn't made a move by the 6th date or so, I'll begin to think something is amiss... a health problem, a lack of attraction, or something.
If there's no kissing or any indication of physical desire by that point, I'd probably start to lose interest in him.
But there's a huge difference between kissing/indication of physical desire/intimacy and sex.
I was having a discussion with female friends about that it's being normal that a guy to not be in the mood for sex. These women told me that even if a guy is sick, laid off, sad, they would still want sex. So let me get this straight, a man is never ever allowed to turn down sex when he is in a relationship?????? Maybe he wants to talk about something that's on his mind. I know it's more men out there who doesn't need sex all the time besides me right?
You should have asked them to test their theory on you.
All 3 of them said that women are taught that men want sex all the time at a early age. So if they came across a guy who didn't want all the time they would think he is cheating
One woman told me that it's clear I wasn't into girls growing up since I tend to put sports and TV above sex.
Who on earth are these women you're allegedly talking to? They sound pre-pubescent.
As far as one of them telling you how clear it is that you weren't into girls growing up, I do hope you explained to her that, at 36 years of age, you're still trying to wean yourself away from the computer and TV screens but that the addiction is strong and maybe she and her friends can help you overcome it with some hands-on therapy.
Who on earth are these women you're allegedly talking to? They sound pre-pubescent.
As far as one of them telling you how clear it is that you weren't into girls growing up, I do hope you explained to her that, at 36 years of age, you're still trying to wean yourself away from the computer and TV screens but that the addiction is strong and maybe she and her friends can help you overcome it with some hands-on therapy.
You know, sometimes these threads help to understand his ones in Work and Employment.
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