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Women are taught that men want sex all the time at a early age. So if they came across a guy who didn't want all the time they would think he is cheating
I am laughing out loud at this. I'm female and was never, ever taught that "all men just want sex." My father wasn't like this, nor were my brothers. Nor is my husband. When my husband has turned down next is never once occured to me that he's "cheating," because he clearly is not.
I think the men who say they never turn down sex just don't get it enough. My husband can have sex whenever he wants, night or day, unless I'm in traction. So he turns down sex because it's not a big deal, he can get it all the time.
I was having a discussion with female friends about that it's being normal that a guy to not be in the mood for sex. These women told me that even if a guy is sick, laid off, sad, they would still want sex. So let me get this straight, a man is never ever allowed to turn down sex when he is in a relationship?????? Maybe he wants to talk about something that's on his mind. I know it's more men out there who doesn't need sex all the time besides me right?
Define all the time.
Personally I actually don't have a higher sex drive than my wife, and sometimes I'll decline, just as she will, but if our sexual activity goes through massive changes we might bring it up. (Aka if I were to reject her 3 nights in a row, that would be strange)
People have different needs and wants, and it's important to find a mate you're compatible with.
That said, if you only want sex say, once a month, you're not within the norm and many women might take that personally.
Oh and... If you don't want to bone, you call always throw her one and exercise some oral skills.
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Originally Posted by Ulysses61
Your friends must be 17 or 18 years old.
My husband's mother was killed by a drunk driver when he was 38 and a cop came to his work to inform him.
Believe me, he was not in the mood for sex for quite a while. And I would think any man wanting to have sex on the heels of being told this news would not be someone I would want to be married to.
It's just asinine to think all men are horny 24/7. Sure, if you're under 30, maybe so. Try being older than that and having kids, a mortgage, job stress, deaths in the family or myriad other things. It's called "real life," folks.
Well for some, sex is a way to "forget" and deal with things. After my dad died, I needed it on occasion because it took my mind off things, I think it would be harsh if my then GF/FWB now Wife would reject me because of it.
Not at all. Only guys who are hard up for sex are the ones who would never turn it down. The others are virgins or who have had sex once to twice and are desperate to get laid again.
Once you get liad a few times by a few different women--you can afford to be picky with who and when you want to do it.
i will be the first to admit I am a sure thing pretty much when it comes to sex.... when I'm sick, tired, busy, whatever. Has there been a time I said no? yes... it is rare but it has happened. not sure why or what I was thinking .
I was having a discussion with female friends about that it's being normal that a guy to not be in the mood for sex. These women told me that even if a guy is sick, laid off, sad, they would still want sex. So let me get this straight, a man is never ever allowed to turn down sex when he is in a relationship?????? Maybe he wants to talk about something that's on his mind. I know it's more men out there who doesn't need sex all the time besides me right?
I am laughing out loud at this. I'm female and was never, ever taught that "all men just want sex." My father wasn't like this, nor were my brothers. Nor is my husband. When my husband has turned down next is never once occured to me that he's "cheating," because he clearly is not.
I think the men who say they never turn down sex just don't get it enough. My husband can have sex whenever he wants, night or day, unless I'm in traction. So he turns down sex because it's not a big deal, he can get it all the time.
But have you heard the trope? It really is a common saying.
But have you heard the trope? It really is a common saying.
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